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A boyfriend is neither a father nor an uncle nor a husband. . . .He is just a dude who is in a relationship with a girl he likes and vice versa and also a girl he is probably contemplating getting serious with. He is not under any obligations whatsoever to foot the bills of a girl he is neither a father nor a husband nor an uncle to. Truth be told, the level of foolishness perpetuated by some boyfriends of our generation cannot be compartmentalized. Honestly in recent times, Majority of boys and girls in a relationship do not know tha meaning of a relationship or what being in a relationship entails. I know almost all the boyfriends (and probably a few girls) reading this right now will be cursing and swearing at me but then, just hold your peace and come to the realisation that you cant continue to be fed three square meals by your folks or pals and feel youre man enough to have a girlfriend. . . . People who depend on others for survival, yet deem it an obligation to foot the bills of a random girl are what???? Errrmm maybe Muntula! Will it be wrong to say such peeps are likely to be termed fools of no comparison?. Most guys have been thoroughly misguided to believe that giving a girl an allowance signifies his genuine love for her. The honest truth here is, You cant be in a relationship without spending money on gifts and on dates and eat outs....oh well its quite understandable but paying your girlfriend a monthly salary? Now thats hillarious......omo na confirmento case of maga mugu of the mumu enterprises. . . Urrrhmmm A slap wont solve anything, neither will a reduction of his allowance stop anything either. What such a chap needs is a serious talking to by a much older lady/ guy who would open his baby eyes to the realities of being in a relationship. Categorically, its absurd, repulsive and unthinkable, to see a young man go borrowing because he wants to impress his so called girlfriend when he cannot take care of himself let alone a girl. Worst of all, once the girl he is trying so hard to impress with all the borrowed money, gadgets, clothes and atimes car discovers hes been borrowing to impress her, shel ditch him and the next thing youl hear him tell whoever cares to listen is, the girl is a gold digger! Excuse me Damn it!!! Excuse me where da hell is the gold in you? You who doesnt even possess any element of silver, bronze, copper or even zinc, you dare say she is a gold digger? Where da hell is the gold in you? Youngman, before you decide to have a girlfriend, please ensure you have a means of livelihood no matter how small it might be and also be yourself! . . .Also bear in mind that you are just a boyfriend and not her Father or Uncle! The last time i checked, its called a RELATIONSHIP and not a SITUATIONSHIP. You no fit carry lace take sew suit now, Sofri dey form big boy abeg, put your hand where e reach!
Posted on: Tue, 22 Oct 2013 12:34:47 +0000

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