ASA Family. My series of posts yesterday raising the question of the treatment of a Self-Aware Black God in the home was/is part of a much larger discourse that I have introduced into the public domain regarding the Problem of Cognitive Dissonance Engendered by “the Black Man is God” Truth-Claim. My posts yesterday generated some important questions, and I would like to address one: Does EVERY Self-Aware God (in training) earn treatment as a Black God in the home? My personal opinion is this: Yes, and no (because he can forfeit it). Every Self-Aware man who submits to Allah (righteousness) deserves the basics in the home: honor, respect, submission. Also, the Decent Dude from yesterday who lacks Self Awareness deserves this as well. These, in my opinion, are the bottom line of proper treatment of a good, responsible man in his home. However these do not themselves equal “Black God” Treatment, in my opinion. The proper treatment of a Self-Aware “God in Training” is more involved, but here is where the discrimination comes in. A man who forfeits his duties in the home cannot reasonably expect to be respected and treated as Head of the Household. A Self Aware Black Man who does not perform his duties as GOD of his cipher OR is a Tyrant in his home, cannot expect to be treated as The Black God for too long. The principle: “Black God” Treatment CANNOT be DEMANDED. It MUST be COMMANDED. That is to say, if a man has to try to “force” or “demand” that his wife treat him as the Black God that he is by nature, then his ‘Godhood’ is not convincing enough to naturally compel her to honor it. He must “get his (Divine) weight up.” If a Self-Aware Man abuses his (divine) authority in the home, e.g. he abuses his wife and children, he forfeits said authority. A sister raised this very relevant question: “What is the proper behavior of a god in his home? Do you think a woman can submit fully to a black man who is conscious, if she is not priority.” Well, it depends on how you define “priority.” Is he neglecting his wife, her needs, his duties as provider and securer? Or, rather, is it that he is unable to provide as much “cuddle time” as she would want because he is out either working as a provider or out working on his cosmic mission? These are different situations. In the first case, a man who is consistently remiss of his duties to his wife and home cannot expect his wife to treat him as ‘the Man’ in the house except under duress. On the flip side, a woman should be prepared to be a Help Meet, and help him meet his duties to the COMMUNITY/NATION, which may mean sacrificing some cuddle time. At the end of the day, a “God” is a cosmic being, and he thus must have ‘Godly’ duties that transcend the duties of his home. He must never neglect his home duties, but a God must have a bigger mission as well, a mission that affects the world outside of the home as well as in his home. A Head of the House takes care of his wife, his children, and his home. A God of the House does all of that, AND performs his cosmic duties as well. His wife should be – must be – his Helpmeet. He in fact cannot fulfill his cosmic duties without his wife as his helpmeet. Note: Godhood is NOT a license to be a lazy tyrant, barking orders at your wife while laying up on the couch watching sports all day and night. That’s not God. That’s Nigga. And Note: A Nigga is automatically disqualified as a God, and forfeits the rights and privileges of a God. A Nigga is as a Nigga does. God is as God does. A Self Aware Man that still acts like a Nigga does not compel ‘Black God’ treatment.
Posted on: Sat, 21 Sep 2013 19:47:04 +0000
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