After seven years, Im not satisfied Ive been going out with this guy for almost seven years now. Unfortunately, Ive been feeling unsatisfied with our relationship as of late. Two main problems come to mind. First, I love him very much, but I feel like he is not working hard enough toward his goals. I just finished my degree, have a job, and I am planning to go back to school in order to get a better career. He, however, still has yet to finish his two-year schooling over the past five years. I have confronted him about it, but he tells me that he wants to do things at his own pace. Im afraid that his pace is too slow for me. I am a pretty independent woman, but I’ve been thinking that we should move in together sometime soon, but not if he cant get his act together, finish his schooling, and get a career (he has a job but not a career). He is a pretty temperamental guy (not in a dangerous way), and will try to avoid confrontation and conflict whenever I bring this up. Is there any way for me to let him know how much this means to me? Second, I feel as if our communication has dwindled. Over the course of seven years, I expected as much, but not to this extent. He doesnt call, and texts are very seldom. I am always the initiator when it comes to contacting each other. Heck, he doesnt even ask me how Im doing or what my plans for the week are anymore. He recently got new roommates who also happen to be his friends. I have a feeling that he prefers to hang out with them than with me. Ive also confronted him about this, but he assures me that he loves me very much. I cant shake this feeling that he may be getting tired of me. We have a great relationship, and we do settle our differences for the most part, but these two things are starting to get to me. Is he falling out of love? Is there any way for me to work around this? Is it time to let go and move on? I dont want to let seven years go down the drain, but I dont want to be unhappy either. What should I do?
Posted on: Wed, 04 Dec 2013 16:10:01 +0000
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