Anonymous: Okay, so Im just curious about what some of you guys will have to say about this subject. I know not every family is perfect and I know there are problems that will always exist between those certain individuals within the family that one simply does not have any control over. There is one sibling who I get along with so very much and there is another who I have absolutely no contact with, and honestly it saddens me because we are all old and mature enough now to not being playing these stupid little games. Ive done my part to remain the best sibling that I could be and still, I get talked down on whether Im doing something wrong or something right. I thought we were called, family for a reason? Family, for the fact that support each other. Doesnt make any sense cause I know going through this process was a part of growing up but the problem is Ive already grown up, weve grown up! Life is so short and I dont think they realize how important the value of family is! Ive seen some families who will have brothers or sisters who treat and show their friends more love and respect than they would their own, not even including the front that they use to cover how nice they really arent. I would say we love each other unconditionally but I would be lying to myself and to you guys. I would say we just love the idea of each other and in reality we cant stand to be around one another. Or be around me at least. I always I envisioned a family where we can chat with one another and have fun laughing at the little things that make life so enjoyable! Unfortunately that is just a dream that seems to be unobtainable, and from the looks of it. I dont think we will ever get there because for years Ive said that and there is still no progress. I also told myself I will do everything in my control to show that Im trying but they were just too good to see that and shrugged me off! To them others are more important and to them others situations are more urgent than mine even if I went to the hospital, which has happened recently. I dont know what to think anymore and Ive given up of faith that one day we will love each other sincerely but the time has already came. So stressful to realize how disoriented my family is! A bummer! If you Hmongs have the same problems please share and please feel free to give advice or say something about how you feel with your family because I have no right to judge....
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 10:28:28 +0000
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