Any kind of forceful control of another person is NOT love & never will be LOVE! Love builds trust from all actions that a person does. These facts are who a person really is! Love gives constant effort - so that not 1 second will ever pass - without you seeing - feeling & knowing what real love is - in forward motion! Love will never manipulate! Love will never hit! Love will lift you up & love will NEVER knock you down! Love will allow voices to be equally heard with equal solutions & REAL love will never produce the grieving pain of abuse! It is scary & very difficult to leave anyone that you LOVE who hurts you - but you are worth it ---- regardless of an abusers lies & whatever they told you or did to you to harm you! Believe me - from my personal experiences of abuse - that the grieving you will do of the what was never meant to be - when you do leave - will be easier on you to do - then staying in the misery of the tears that keep coming when you are with some one who will never love you & & abuse is all they choose to give to you! You may love an abuser - but an abuser - will never love you & there is no reason for you to stay where you are not loved! People who abuse do have a horrible problem - but you should never pay for their problem with your health - safety - emotions & your life! Please love & respect your self enough to seek help cause this is what REAL love is! Seek recovery & move on. For some people can not be helped & you are only enabling their abuse when you stay! Do not let no one control you like that! You do deserve better! The saddest fact of violence & human abuse is that a victim will become the enabler of the abuser ---- just because the victim chooses to stay! This is not blaming any victim. ~ But an abuser knows the fear of their victim! An abuser knows how to keep their victim silent! The abuser will do whatever they want to the victim & unless the victim stops this - the abuse continues - because the abuser knows the victim will stay! These actions of a victim will enable the actions of their abusers & the abuse continues! Sad but true facts. The only way for abuse to end is for the victim to use their voice to protect their self & get help so the abuse will stop! No victim should ever be a prisoner to an abuser! There are ways out & options for a victim. A victim must help their self to save their own life! To stay with an abuser is to support & enable their bad choices - bad behaviors & then you contribute to the problem by staying. Do you really not see your role in an abusive life when you choose NOT to stop it? You suffer & others suffer with you ~ because they can not help you because you choose to stay with an abuser. It is sad. It is true. But it is facts. Why live like this? You do not deserve this & an abuser does not deserve to have any people around them! Especially people who do love them cause all they will ever do is harm others. Rarely do abusers change SO you must change your life to stop letting abuse hurt you! We all make mistakes with people we love ---- especially when we want to be accepted by those we love ---- who will never love us back. Most abusers will never know what REAL LOVE IS & ACCEPT FACTS OF LOVE! But we live. We learn. We get help & we move on! I pray that all who are in abusive situations can find your way out to be safe & recover & find the real of life & real of love that you deserve too!
Posted on: Sat, 04 Oct 2014 04:00:03 +0000
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