As I try to move through this process, I find I am doing the only thing I know how to do: try and understand. I could feel the lie as it left his mouth, desperate and flimsy I didnt see the stop sign. I walked by the accident site today and stood in different parts of the road to see if there was any way he could be telling the truth. I could see the stop sign as clear as day from where he should have been paying attention..... Even from the bottom of the hill where he must have punched it in order to gain the speed he did to hit me as hard as he did. I didnt see her car coming. This is probably true. Big buildings do have a way of obstructing ones view.... Thats probably why there is a stop sign there. He did tell the truth when he told me he didnt have insurance. He lied when he presented a fraudulent document to the officer to indicate he did. All of theses are circumstances I have no control over. Theres nothing I can do to change any of this. What I can do though is find solace in the fact that Geico will be pursing him for reimbursement of the cost of the settlement for my car, medical bills and other such things. Since he did have insurance with then previously, it will be hard for him to evade them. I also received a document today that will suspend his license once Im able to prove that the damage he caused to me and my vehicle is more than $700. What I can understand is that I have been in desperate situations. I know what its like to be low on money or unable to pay bills because of rough financial times. I can also understand the consequences of these situations. I am at a point in my life when understanding these consequences brings me joy instead of anguish and hurt. I dont think hes in the same place but maybe this is his opportunity to start on that path. Who knows.... But what I do know that this is a great opportunity to count my blessings, kiss the babies and send love out in every possible way I can including toward him (and his consciously incompetent sister)..... because this is all I have left to do. Well... That and work on buying a new car!!!! Oiy!!!
Posted on: Wed, 06 Aug 2014 02:24:21 +0000
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