As many of you know I lost the love of my life about four weeks ago. My husband was my world and I loved him more than anything in our earthly world. He was my best friend and I am so lost without him. As if loosing him wasnt bad enough I knew that the worst would be yet to come because greed and one step daughter who totally disrespected her fathers wishes and did things that Im sure he is frowning down from heaven on her for doing but she is so full of greed, hate, and only cares for having her own way that Im sure she hasnt thought what all of this has done to her fathers wishes and how he was trying to take care of his immediate family because he knew he had little to leave them to continue with their lives but she did what she did for herself against his wishes and not only disgraced herself but her dead father and his last wishes. Hate and greed are evil things in the world and its a shame that children ( this one being a 40 year old women who has never known anything but hate and discontent for others) disregard what their parents wishes are when they pass. Her father was a beautiful, loving man wanting to take what little he had left to give his wife, daughter and grandson something to continue life without him. He worried about it and talked many times about it and how sorry he was that he had so little to leave us. The money and objects didnt mean a thing to me I just knew he loved us and it was important to leave us something to pay the bills and rent and things that would be coming in after his death. He wasnt leaving his other daughters out each of them would have received something of there fathers. It may not have been much but because the other girls had families of there own he was worried more about providing what he could for his own family. I was raised to respect my parents and when God forbid they pass whatever small token they want to give me I will gladly take and be happy with because that will be their wish and I love them and would never disrespect them for any reason let alone the wishes they made before they passed. I welcomed my husbands whole family into our home for close too three weeks because I knew this would be Rods wish. This included his ex wife and her husband. Rods brothers and sisters were more than supportive and we enjoyed our last days with him as much as we could. The disrespect that continued in and outside our home while he lay in the house on his death bead was ultimately all due to the same daughter who has continued to disrespect him even after his death. No mention was ever made of helping with his memorial expensive or a stone for his grave. For years I have seen this. Selfishness and hatefulness from only one of my husbands daughters. I have prayed for her everyday and will continue to pray for her to find The Lord and some love in her life because all she has now is hate and discontent in her heart. Its sad and I cant believe that she would do this to her father but they say their is always one and in this case I knew it would be her. I forgive her for what she has done to her sister, nephew and I but sadly she will never be considered family to us again. Trust and love for ones family is earned and she has lost any respect I had for her. My other step daughters will always be welcome in our home but as for her that kindness will never again be offered. I hope she can live with herself and the shame she has brought on her fathers last wishes. We will manage in whatever way we can to continue to live on without him and with our faith in God we will endure. We will continue to make my husband proud and do what we have to too continue on and continue to look forward to seeing him again in our home in heaven. I only hope she can receive the forgiveness she will need to ever see her loving father again. God will take care of our needs and we have no regrets about following through with his last wishes. We love and will always love him. Thank you father for giving us strength and love through this trying time because we have nothing to regret we have your love and his love they will endure forever. Love you more than ever Rod and I always will.
Posted on: Sat, 19 Oct 2013 01:53:31 +0000
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