As written by Anietie Duff Way on how to approach a girl... BY DON JAY™ to avoid if you want to approacha womanThe first thing you want to know is what not todo. Guys often do a lot of mistakes by assuming some idea is good or cool, but then it’s a huge disappointment when it turns out that the truth is the exact opposite.Bad clothingGirls don’t necessarily stare at your clothing, but it’s hard not to observe who has appropriate clothing and who doesn’t care about what he wears each day. Don’t get the wrong idea: well-dressed men can end up not having girlfriends, so it’s not all about clothes.However, in a girl’s eyes, if your clothing is careless, awkward or without a decent style then the girl will think that you are a lazy or good-for-nothing person and will most likely put you into the friend-zone or even worse, she will try to avoid you while she will obviously talk to other guys. That’s a bad feeling, isn’t it? Don’t let it happen!Do you think you’d need a whole lot of money just to get decent clothing? No, you actually don’t. You can use second hand clothes, your dad’s clothes or even your cousin’s or brother’s clothes – as long as the clothes fit your body size and shape and as long as the clothing style matches your personality. We will come back soon to this aspect which is also very important.So, the point is: choose the right clothes and get a date! (Wow, as simple as that? Don’t worry – below in this article you will find useful tips to get nice dates with good looking girls or women.)Jokes can get boring…Some guys really have a good startup with all the girls they try to conquer, but then fail with one simple behavior. We all know that pretty girls like jokes, they enjoy hanging out with funny guys – but there’s a limit to everything. You see, the fact is that when a girl hears nothing but jokes, she will think that you make up all those jokes because you have nothing essential to say while hanging out with her.Let’s face it: girls want to be heard. They will definitely ask about you as well, but they want to see that you are interested in basically everything that is related to them. Don’t expect them to tell you “hey, I want you to notice my new shoes” because girls never speak out in so many details. It’s a man’s duty to become a good observer and prove to be the perfect match for the woman in case.However, please don’t end up with the wrong conclusions: the basic cocky and funny technique does work like a charm on most girls. Of course, there are some exceptions to this as well (like there are exceptions to every category). So what does cocky and funny mean? We’ll talk about it later in this article.Messed up hair, dirty teeth, bad mouth odorWell, yes. This is a simple thing to follow: a girlalways wants hygiene. We all know that out ofcomfort or not caring, men will often neglect basic hygiene. However, girls cannot accept such partners and will probably never want to hang out with you again if they notice that your hair is messy, or even that your fingernails are uncut and dirty. Let’s face it: it’s disgusting to walk out the door in such a condition.Of course, dirty teeth are not allowed. Imaginehow it would feel like to finally end up getting your first kiss with a hot date and then you’d realize you can’t kiss her because your mouth odor is like you didn’t wash your teeth since days. What would happen is that your hot datewould neatly ‘run away’. Not literally, but she would avoid you further on, all the time, no matter how much you’d try to be with her.Looking at other girls’ buttocks while hanging out with your dateYou’d definitely want to avoid that! While you are hanging out with girls, even if you know you’re still single (you didn’t conquer her heartyet), you should totally avoid staring at other women’s curves. Not like you wouldn’t observe there are other pretty women out on the streets, but you’d make your potential partner feel very uncomfortable.On the other hand, she’d consider you a fake person, because you are the one who is trying to make her believe that she is the only girl foryou. And trust me: when girls observe that you have started to make up lies … they will become different and lie to you constantly as well, in order to protect themselves from getting hurt. Think of it as this: if you’d be in her situation with a girl, you’d probably act the same way, politely but smartly keeping a gooddistance.How to approach girlsApproaching girls is yet another chapter of a big book. However, we’ll focus on general theories, rather than inventing ‘techniques’ that work on some girls but fail on a lot of other girls.Every girl is uniqueThe first thing you must know before approaching girls is that every girl has her own personality. She is a unique person, dresses in her own way, has her own dreams and ideals in life and has her specific hobbies and expectations as to how her potential partners have to be like. Don’t try to schematize girls because they don’t ‘work’ on a scheme or on a template. It is true that girls can be categorized by personalities, type of preferred music and so on, but still approaching them is always different.Do it with confidenceThe basic rule of approaching girls is doing it with style and strong inner confidence. Girls are the best lie detectors, fear detectors, non-alpha male detectors in the entire world. What makes certain men alpha males? Trust me: it’s not the muscles, not the cars and definitely not the social class. If you are special in your own way, if you have your unique style, you can easily get girls who are normally considered to be ‘out of your league’.She is out of my league – mythThis is another thing we want to reflect on within this article: the ‘out of your league’ category. There is no such thing. Women who won’t want to be with you because you really don’t have a car of their expectations or don’t dress exactly like they have imagined, then it makes no sense to want these girls. Superficial women don’t make good girlfriends and they don’t make good wives either. Every normal girl, even if trying to prove that she is up to high expectations will fall for boys who prove themselves to be worth trying, who show themselves confident,stylish, classy, of good manners and of good sense of interacting with women.Be yourselfNow, referring to style and inner confidence, there’s again no template. The style should beany style that is your own style and inner confidence must be present in every man. If you are uncertain of your wishes and plans, better stay single until you clear them up and only after then try approaching girls. Words like perhaps, maybe, guess shouldn’t be used too frequently when asking out girls. You haveto find a unique invitation, some text you did not read from the internet, but came from your heart. Believe me, once you’re there, you will have funny but stylish ideas. The most of the ideas which would seem ‘too risky to ask’ are the working ones: ask them with confidence. What’s the worst that could happen? The girl says no. That is not a loss because there are thousands of girls out there, and a girl who wasn’t your girlfriend can’t be considered a loss if she refuses to be (losing something that is not yours – that is not a loss).How to impress a girlAbove in this article, we have already mentioned some methods that need to be discussed in details. Impressing girls isn’t an easy task, but shouldn’t become too hard either. Please remember this time as well: no templates.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 7.8/10(69 votes cast)Rating:+25(from 31 votes)The perfect New Year’s Resolution: Attract women if you are single0byadmin•How to Get a GirlfriendAre you still single, feeling like you’d need a woman to stand by you, to have someone to share your dreams with? Did you plan to enterthe New Year with a new girlfriend, but things weren’t as you wanted them to be? If any of the above (or some similar situation) is true in your case, you will definitely want to attract women, every chance you’ve got in the New Year.Firstly, men need to consider their style and behavior. Style isn’t only about clothes, but it includes a number of things like:*.Your ability to show that you are a real man and have friends to spend time with*.How your hair is arranged*.How your clothes are, do they match your hairstyle, do they match your shoes and personality*.Normal level of inner confidence – women can sense it, even if they didn’t meet you beforeWithout any particular style, women don’t really feel attracted to men. It all works on a simple principle: since there are so many guysto choose from, they will mostly want to stick with the best choice. This is how nature is andthis is how women think instinctively.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 7.8/10(24 votes cast)Rating:+3(from 3 votes)How to Talk to Girls on Facebook0byadmin•How to talk to girlsThe human social life has now partially movedonline. If used wisely, the internet and the electronic gadgets that can get us connected with the help of emails, social networks and other online means, are all to our greatest advantage.Most single guys, especially if they already have a Facebook account, will start looking for the hottest girls in their area on Facebook. Here are a number of reasons why Facebook observation of girls could be more effective than walking on the street or shopping:*.You won’t have to feel absurd or dumb if youlook at some pictures for 30 minutes – sometimes admiration, love on first sight, sight of something special and new does notallow the eyes to take a break or to stop looking.*.You will easily observe the kind of person she is, by looking at her photos and her social interaction with other people, both men and women.*.In most cases, you will have a better idea of how old she is. Since girls do look a lot more mature than they actually are, you should find out that you’ve picked a 15 years old girlif you’re – let’s say – 40 years old and thought she was 23!*.You will find out where she lives. Does she live in your area? If not, how far is her home from yours?*.You will find out a lot about her hobbies, favorite pages, favorite movies.*.By observing her best friends, you will probably get a better picture of what kind of friend-circles she’s involved in.*.By looking at her recent comments/discussions via comments with guys you will find out if she has an ongoing relationship or not (not every girl will write “in a relationship” openly on Facebook)Why am I reflecting on all of the above? First of all, it is a lot of advantage to you if you already know half-truths and half-realities. This is because if you know her interests, her style, her favorite things then you will find it quite easy to impress her.Impressions before adding her as a friendIdeally, you shouldn’t just become “cool” all of the sudden, just after you’ve added the girl on Facebook. You can build your way to being cool, to being something that captures her attention. But don’t forget that whatever impressions you are going to make should all be original and matching your personality.If she is already your friend since weeks, months or years, it’s a different story. In that case, if she ever viewed your profile, she already decided what type of guy you are. In that case, you should only consider the steps below.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 7.5/10(83 votes cast)Rating:+14(from 20 votes)How to Start a Conversation with a Girl0byadmin•How to talk to girlsA lot of guys out there are simply watching as brand new, great opportunities pass by, without taking any advantage. As some singleguys confess on the internet (as well as in reallife), it’s not a solution to keep falling in love dozens of times daily as you go shopping, walking, to concerts or anywhere else. Sooneror later, we have to choose that one “perfect” girl. The term perfect means something totally different for all men, but let’s say that we all have a She. So, whenever you see a potential She – how do you start a conversation? What would your pickup line be?Mostly, it’s better to avoid pickup lines. Girls are not pizza recipes you can prepare at home for. If there are thousands of girls out there, it’s like thousands of different foods – the only common recipe is that they are all great in their own ways.You’d now doubt what I am saying – why on earth would you drop pickup lines? First of all, girls don’t really fall for pickup lines. They onlyfall for that if you are that instant crush she fell for in just 1 minute’s time. Other than that, the chances are almost zero. And think of it as this: how would your pickup line sound in the ears of your dream girl if the line seems awkward to you or seems anything but perfect. That’s right – without your own perfect amount of confidence, none of it could actually work. That’s natural selection.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 7.3/10(27 votes cast)Rating:+9(from 11 votes)How To Flirt With A Girl0byadmin•How to talk to girls• Tags:Cool girl flirting tips,How To Flirt With A Girl,how to impress a girlFlirting with girls and the techniques of how toflirt with a girl have changed enormously. What factors caused the changes? Well, frankly, a lot of things have influenced both men and women:*.Seeing the trends online*.Watching television – various reality shows or movies*.The way technology has changed our lives lately*.The variety of male and female beauty nowadays (we tend to expose more of our looks, even if we are past 50 years of age)*.The fact that nowadays it’s almost mandatory that everyone has a car*.Financial instability – if two people are financially incompatible, things might get harderThe above mentioned factors are only generalones, but they do play an important role in human love relationships nowadays.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 8.1/10(29 votes cast)Rating:+6(from 12 votes)How to talk to women0byadmin•How to talk to women• Tags:How to talk to women,talk to women,Talking to womenTalking to women may sometimes seem relatively simple, but actually we’d need an entire book guide and still we couldn’t know how to do it properly. However, certain techniques are very well applicable in a lot of cases, spiced up with creativity, humor, sense of what others want/expect.To begin with, different locations demand different styles. If you are shopping in a hypermarket or even a small local store, you could initiate a nice conversation if you notice that you need the same product which was chosen by the lady of your dreams, or if you feel brave enough you could throw in some compliments. What kinds of compliments are good to use? Well, it’s hard to tell, but for you to know, you must observe the woman’s style.Don’t try using pickup lines from movies or comic books because they might simply fail inmost cases. However, if you find someone proud due to successful usage of a movie pickup line, don’t be too surprised as it may rarely work magically!Learnhow to talk to womenand make compliments. You should always include certain things. Don’t try complimenting a woman’s chest – that can cause a really bad first impression. However, you can say something nice about her hair, her eyes, her clothes, dress, shoes, earrings or other jewelry. You could tell her that you love her smile. If you notice that the lady you are just trying to approach is somewhat of a wild lady, you can even try semi-perverted compliments, such as: “I will eat you with yourcute smile” or something similar. With womenit’s all different: when things you say to a woman seem completely weird and inappropriate, they might work. On the other hand, things you’d consider normal to say might not bring the desired results.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 102 / 101 / 10Rating: 7.7/10(20 votes cast)Rating:+8(from 8 votes)How to talk to girls1byadmin•How to talk to girls• Tags:How to talk to girlsWhy do we need guides, hints ortips on how to talk to girls? Isn’t it natively in our instinct tosimply approach women and talk to them in a normal way? No, it isn’t. The only thing within our instincts is that of requiring a partner for life time, or some people prefer changing theirpartners frequently.Of course, if you’ve spent just a minimal amount of time with your male friends, you have observed that the guys who have tens orhundreds of different girlfriends during a couple of years only do not have any trouble in talking to girls (I mean talking in the right way – for instance, if I’d say ‘sun is shining, tomato’ that is talking, but not a good/appropriate thing to say to a nice girl). Why is this? Because their experience is vast, they have a good sense of how each woman is expecting them to make the first moves.Learn how to talk to girl – The first movesNow, on first moves, we could have an endless list. Literally, every common stupidity could be a first move. Of course, a good first move is that to which you have a planned or unplanned spontaneous (spontaneous strategies always work better – you can’t learn to talk to girls from books or articles, but you find some guidelines in them) following, which eventually leads to a pleasant conversation. Wait a minute right there! A pleasant conversation should mean it’s pleasant for the both of you, and not any otherway around.Things all depend on where you are, in case you are just trying to meet a girl. Let’s list a couple of situations as good examples.More10 / 109 / 108 / 107 / 106 / 105 / 104 / 103 / 10 For more email me: anietieduff@gmail
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