BEING UNHAPPY...THE FEAR OF FAILURE AND HAVING LESS IN LIFE ARE THE LEAST OF OUR PROBLEMS IN L...THATS ACTUALLY THE EASY PART! MOST OF US HAVE A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP TO PAIN ON EVERY LEVEL WHICH IS WHY OUR TOLERANCE IS SO HIGH FOR IT AND OUR PATIENCE IS SO SHORT FOR HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS! THE FIRST TIME I BECAME A MILLIONAIRE AND HAD MORE FINANCIALLY THAN I NEEDED...I ACTUALLY WENT INTO A MENTAL DEPRESSION! CAN YOU IMAGINE THAT??? HAVING MONEY AND STILL BEING DEPRESSED?! AS ONE CAN IMAGINE...I COULD NOT FIGURE FOR THE LIFE OF ME WHAT WAS WRONG! IT WAS THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE THAT I HAD A MAJOR SURPLUS OF MONEY AND IT WAS ALSO THE MOST UNCOMFORTABLE FEELING THAT IVE EVER HAD IN MY LIFE! IT WAS THEN THAT I REALIZED THAT WHILE SUCCESS IS SOMETHING THAT WE ALL SAY THAT WE WANT...ITS ALSO SOMETHING OUTSIDE OF OUR COMFORT ZONE! THE SAME APPLIES TO HAPPINESS IN A RELATIONSHIP. NELSON MANDELLA SAID..."ITS NOT THE FEAR OF FAILURE WE MUST CONTEND WITH...ITS THE FEAR OF SUCCESS...WHAT WE MIGHT BECOME IS MORE FRIGHTENING. WITHIN 6 MONTHS I BEGAN TO SLIDE BACKWARDS FINANCIALLY AND WITHIN A YEAR I WAS BACK STRUGGLING TO GET ON TOP! LOOKING BACK ON THAT EXPERIENCE HAS HELPED ME TO REALIZE THAT SUCCESS IS TRULY SPIRITUAL NOT PHYSICAL! THE WAR IS IN THE MIND AND PLAYS OUT IN THE STREETS! THE TRUTH IS...I DIDNT FEEL WORTHY OF THE SUCCESS I WAS HAVING AND I WAS FRIGHTENED AT HAVING ALL THAT MONEY AT ONCE! ALTHOUGH THE IDEA OF BEING RICH SOUNDS AND IS GOOD...WE HAVE TO CHECK OUR MENTAL CAPACITY TO ENDURE THAT LEVEL OF PROGRESS! WHY AM I WRITING THIS??? PRIMARILY BECAUSE I WANT THOSE WHO ARE ON THEIR JOURNEY TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE REAL HURDLES THAT WE FACE IN PURSUIT OF WEALTH AND HAPPINESS IS NOT MONEY...THE START UP CAPITAL OR THE RIGHT PERSON...BUT RATHER THE REAL ENEMY IS THE INNER-ME...THAT PART OF US THAT HAS TO ACCEPT THAT WE DESERVE THE WEALTH AND THE LOVE SOMEONE IS TRYING TO GIVE US! THE LACK OF MONEY AND POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE SYMPTOMS OF A DYSFUNCTIONAL MINDSET! WE SABOTAGE SUCCESS AND OUR OWN HAPPINESS BECAUSE IT IS OUTSIDE OF OUR COMFORT ZONE...THEREFORE THE REAL BATTLE COMES WHEN ITS ALL WITHIN OUR REACH NOT NECESSARILY ON THE JOURNEY! I BELIEVE IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO OUR SELF ESTEEM! I KNOW WE WANT HAPPINESS AND MASSIVE SUCCESS...BUT IN OUR HEART OF HEARTS...DO WE REALLY FEEL WORTHY OF IT??? IF WE DO THEN WHY WONT WE DO WHAT IT TAKES...THERE ARE TONS OF BOOKS AND SELF HELP MATERIAL THAT OUTLINES IN CLEAR TERMS THE JOURNEY...THE QUESTION FOR TODAY IS WHY WONT WE TAKE THE NEXT STEP AND MORE IMPORTANTLY KEEP RUNNING UNTIL WE REACH THE FINISH LINE??? RO...NO CEILINGS!
Posted on: Mon, 05 Aug 2013 16:51:10 +0000
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