Babes!...........Babes!!......... Babes!!!........... how many times I call una?............ See, e b like say una cum too dey complain about guys & heartbreaks dis days o & I dey feel say d reason wey make sum of una dey always experience constant heartbreak in a relationship na bcus many of una dey jump enter relationship like person wey dey dive enter swimming pool, witout even knowin how deep dat swimming pool be & by d time u don use ur head take nack ground for inside d swimming pool finish, na dat time u go cum jump cum out begin shout "My head o! E dey bring blood o" lolzzz Anyway, make I give una small expo on tins wey una suppose look out for b4 giving dat guy ur precious heart to help u keep #1 His Interest In Commitment:- Is this guy really serious about dating you on a long term or is he just looking for a short fling? There are a few guys who can’t stay single because they can’t handle loneliness, but at the same time, they’re terrified of serious commitment too. If you’re dating a guy, make sure he isn’t afraid to commit and is genuinely interested in the relationship. Take your time to get close to him, and watch his behavior. If you don’t feel like an important part of his life, chances are, you really aren’t! #2 His Arrogance:- Arrogance is subjective, but it’s still a trait that’s very easy to recognize. There’s a thin line between being overly confident in everything you do, and being too rude and arrogant about it. If you believe the guy you like is extremely confident in a cute way, that’s good for you. But if his behavior comes across as rude and arrogant, especially when he’s having a conversation with you, he’s definitely not the guy for you. #3 His Respect For you:- A great guy will respect you for the person you are, and won’t treat you like you’re nothing. A guy who respects you will try hard to impress you all the time. He’ll dress up and look good for you because he doesn’t want to disappoint you, he’ll try to make a good impression on your friends and family, and he’ll display his calm side every time he’s with you. #4 His Social Life:- One of the sensible things to look for in a guy is his social life. Does he have a lot of friends? Is he a loner that no one likes to hang out with? A guy who’s too lonely may not always be a good find, because he’s either antisocial, boring or rude, or too occupied with something in his life to have time for anything else *and that includes you!* #5 He Pursues You. Just how eager is this guy to date you? Does he try to woo you and pursue you, or is he just taking it easy? If a guy truly likes you and is interested in making you smile and keeping you happy, he’d woo you and respect you all the time, with his gestures and by his behavior around you. If a guy likes you, it’s in his inbuilt character to try and impress you. So if a guy you’re dating doesn’t try to impress you, chances are, he isn’t impressed by you! #6 He’s Living A Secret Life:- This may seem shocking, but there are many guys who lives double lives. He may be dating someone else or may even be married to someone else in another area, while dating you at the same time! Make sure the guy you’re dating isn’t building a secret relationship with you. Does he avoid taking you to crowded restaurants? Does he appear nervous and look around often, each time both of you meet in public? If a guy has nothing to hide, he won’t have any qualms about going out with you in public or bumping into his friends when you’re around. #7 Emotional Maturity:- It’s always cute to watch a guy behave like a little boy sometimes. But when you actually try to assess a guy as a dating potential, always look for emotional maturity. Does he get really angry or proud over silly things? How does he approach big decisions in life? If a guy seems immature, especially when he’s making decisions, he’s probably not the right guy for you as a long term partner. #8 His Focus On Life:- Now he doesn’t have to be a millionaire or a promising young man. But when you think about this guy, just how focused is he with the way he leads his life? Does he have any concrete plans for the future? *Not the I-know-I’ll-be-rich-in-five-years kind of plan o!* If a guy isn’t focused in life, it’s a pretty good sign that he’s a complete mess right now. He may not seem like a mess when you meet him, especially if he seems cool like a guy who’s living in the moment, but almost times, guys who don’t have goals or aren’t focused on anything in life will end up frustrated or lost very soon! #9 He’s A Romantic:- This may not matter to you right now, but at some point of time, it definitely will! *especially when another girl friend of yours starts dating a guy who’s a true romantic* Does this guy woo you or sometimes sing love songs just for you, or does he believe that being romantic are things you see only in the movies? Date a guy only if you’re comfortable with his romantic side. #10 He’s Selfless:- Does this guy display little acts of selflessness every now and then when both of you start dating? Does he give you the better seat, or make sure you’re comfortable before he gets comfortable? Selflessness and unconditional love comes naturally to considerate guys. If you have to teach a guy how to be considerate, he’s probably not worth your time because he wouldn’t see selflessness as a romantic trait. Instead, an inconsiderate guy may see it as your way of emotionally manipulating him just to see yourself happy. #11 He Listens to Your Opinions:- When a man listens to your opinions and even follows them sometimes, it shows that he really respects you and believes in what you have to say. If a guy considers you an equal and an intellectual whose ideas he respects, he’ll listen to you and consider your opinion before making a decision. On the other hand, if he thinks your ideas are not worthy of his interest, he may pretend to care what you think at the start of the relationship. But as time goes by, he may make it obvious that he doesn’t care what you say or think. And that’s never a sign of good compatibility in a relationship. Those who have ears, let them what?..........HEAR!!!
Posted on: Sun, 29 Sep 2013 15:48:52 +0000
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