Being Romantic is a Sunnah Cont..... Ahmad ibn hanbal said, women love to be told clearly that they are loved, it strengthens the feelings and affection, if you refuse to express your feelings for her, it will create a barrier of harshness between you and her...... Most couples today are only romantic for the first few years of marriage, after that, its assumed that its childish to keep saying (I love you)... Whats childish about it? Walllahi those 3 words are the basis and foundation of marriage.. Brothers, be romantic: sometimes u shud eat frm d same plate and feed ur wives, sometimes put meat In between ur teeth and put it in ur wives mouth by way of kissing thereby mutually sharing the meat... Attimes involve in pillow fights with ur wives, throw pillows at her, when she is angry, hold her and tell her how beautiful she is, tell her you look more beautiful when you are angry, if she is still angry, then move back and throw chocolates at her, spray perfume on her or pour water on her, all these are part of being romantic. Attimes carry your wife in your arms around the house, attimes carry the baby on your back too, na two of una born the pikin together so na two of una go carry am... Attimes play simple games together, throw balls at eachother, have a mini gymnasium in your house where you train your wife for jihad, teach her how to fight, carry her and let her carry you if she has the strength, but dont allow her to knack you gbam!!!! For ground o.. Watch isllamic stations together with her, eat pop- corn together, sleep on the same room and d same bed, dont have your own separate room, some men now have their own room where they run to, after quarelling with their wife, who are you leaving her for? Even if a man practices polygyny, he cant have his own room, he has to be rationing rooms from one wife to the other and one wife per day.. Thats justice!!!!! Attimes, go on a stroll with your wife and chit-chat with her, go to places of amuzement or admiration of nature if the places is free from half Unclad zombies..... Dont only buy gifts for your wife when she is sick in the hospital, but for her often, the best gift is the one that comes from the bottom of your heart not the store.. Shop things for her, there is ntin wrong with you going to the market with your beards and say I want to buy female underwears, pads, dolls, cosmetics e.t.c.. Brothers if you know how to plait hair, do it for your wife, be her hairdresser, it will save u some expenses.. Carry your wife on your back and carry her to her bed when she sleeps off in the parlour, make her feel like a baby attimes.. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2yrs old girl attimes... Thats why women behave childish or silly attimes... You may have an arguement with your wife and d next thing is that you wil see her putting your bags outside the house, it doesnt mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say I am sorry for the arguement... Thats women for you.. Every broda needs to study the university of women before getting married, read books about them, learn wht the prophet said about them and what Allah said about them, and u will hardly have a problem wit them... Though u will stil have problem o, because a woman is always a woman and her imperfections are there... Even the wives of the prophet were like that despite their ilm, heekmah and understandin of d deen..... Except khadija bint khuwaylid, she was the best among them, she was knownn as taheraah (d pure), she doesnt even know how to commit sin, she never shouted on the prophet even though she was old enough to give birth to him, she was the best wife material, a home maker, a sealed nectar, pepperisticcally beautifull, the creme of quraysh, sweet scented musk, stainless and untainted.. To the extent that Allah even sent angell jibrael to greet her (as salamu alllaykum) ...... SubhanAllah....So brodaz, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbrnging, fiqh of marriage and the likes.... Dont just jump into marriage wit an empty head about matrimony... You will have problems. Even d wife of umar was once shouting an yellling at him at the top of her voice, a man wanted to come and complain of the same issue to him but was surprised when d same thing was happeing to umar. Umar callled d man and d man explained his reason for coming, umar told him that, my wife takes care of d house, do d dishes, feed d animalls, bake d bread, feed my chilldren and takes care of me even though alll these are not binding on her, why shoulldnt I also ignore her imperfections? My broda, go and do d same to your wife, and be patient and kind to her for there is no perfection in dis world, and rely on Allah, these world is very short!!!!!! SubhanAlllah..
Posted on: Sun, 10 Aug 2014 16:32:04 +0000
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