Being a SINGLE mom People always dream of having a complete and happy family. But i dont believe that one cant be happy if you only have your mom or your dad with you. My life evolved on being a SINGLE MOM for a couple of years now! I always dreamed of walking down the aisle with the man that i love, having kids with him and living in a nice home. But that is way too far from my life now. It was in 2002 when i got pregnant with my bf. A child we never expected, but i cant deny that he is a love child that we both want, but came in an unexpected time. I kept it secret from my family till my cousin told my mom that i was 3 months pregnant. My mom doesnt like my bf and his family (well, i feel the same way huh). I then have to choose between them. Hmmm needs a lot of thinkin! I got to a point that ive realized, i cant get nowhere if i go with him, coz he cant even live by himself and cant get away from her moms skirt(watta guy!) I cant deny the fact that i loved him, c0z there wouldnt be a baby if not because of LOVE! But its a matter of choosing between LOVE and LIFE! A choice that can turn the world upside down! Hmm ive made a choice already.. I chose to stay with my FAMILY! A decision ill never regret! Through thick and thin, they supported me all the way! But even if thats my choice, i still didnt forget that hes the father of my son. I gave birth november of that year. A cute baby boy came to life. A child i can never imagine can be mine. Hahaha! Hes so cute! I never regret keeping this baby! I cant explain how happy i felt when i saw him. 12 hours of labor? Watta relief after i heard his first cry! The pain is all worth it. I did my best to take care of him. Of course, being a 1st time mom is so hard but its fulfilling. Everyone was so happy seeing my baby. But you know what? The family of his father didnt even bother to check hows the baby! Wtf! Now i know that you people dont really care huh! I still tried to bear the pain. Been through many ups and downs, and ive grown tired of all these problems. This made me decide to just let go and live my life alone. I cant hold on to someone who cant even fight for me! I know its gonna be hard for me but i have to choose what will be the best for my son! We then lived our life away from him. A SINGLE MOM by choice! But still no regrets. Its been so hard for me since im jobless. Till a lucky day came, an outsourcing company called me up and asked me to apply for a Customer Service Representative. I was so shocked! I cant! I dont know how! But at the back of my mind, i thought it would be a good opportunity for me, so i grabbed it! Well, i got the job! Yuhoo! Now i can provide what my son needs. Being a single mom cant stop me from giving a good life to my son. Ive worked so hard for him coz I dont wanna go back to our old life, when i cant even give the food that he wants or give him medicine when he had asthma attacks. Ive suffered and cried so much just to fight for our lives. Its so painful to see him grow and not getting what he should deserve! My son is my strength and my life! I know im not the best mom but ive proven enough, that my hardships will really be worth it. Hes now 8 years old and i cant ask for anything more coz seeing him grow is more than enough! I know i made the right choice. Dont let your heart and your mind suffer. Just make the right choice and everything will follow. Dont let trials stop you! You are the only one who can decide for your life! Be strong, be wise, believe in yourself and keep your faith in GOD! You can be happy and successful even if youre single! I AM PROUD TO BE A SINGLE MOM!
Posted on: Mon, 19 Jan 2015 07:06:20 +0000
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