Busy week with the phones - A piece of advice for those finding themselves caught up in the cycle of dysfunction - Stop relationship hopping - A relationship will not fix your problems - it may temporarily alleviate the loneliness of isolation you feel but when you are wounded - carrying around open festering wounds, you will attract to you others who are just as wounded and/or those who know youre at a weak state and can be used and controlled To get past the hurdles youre facing you need to be by yourself to focus on yourself - THAT is the medicine needed to start the healing process. Healing is painful - you need to feel that pain - those emotions...youve been numbing yourself too long with created dramas to avoid your own core issues - healing takes courage - You need to dig deep, and you need get help from where ever you can- support groups, counseling, self reflection, etc... Learn what your emotions are- keep a journal...write down what youre feeling...dreaming about...and what you fear. A relationship does not give you worth and value. YOU provide those things to a relationship - two strong and confident people create a strong relationship - two openly wounded people enhance each others weaknesses not strengths. Ok- done with my been there done that vent. youtu.be/k7X7sZzSXYs
Posted on: Sat, 03 Jan 2015 18:02:29 +0000
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