Campus Prayer Coordinator cries for help Sir, I need your candid advice sir and Ill appreciate your reply earnestly sir I and a lady happens 2 be into a friendship after having been sure of what God is saying about it. We started as friends but as times goes on we began to develop a very strong feeling for each other. But we never opted in for dating, because we both assume that its not d right time 4 us both academically and in age, but the love is still so strong as ever. But all of a sudden, pressure starts coming from... every angles including her sister who happens to be a prayer coordinator in a fellowship on campus while I happen to be one in another. Even though we are not dating but the pressure was too much as if we are already dating. But I must sincerely confess we sincerely loved each other. After all this, around dec. 2013, I called her to still know her stand in d matter. And that was when I told her 4 d 1st time after about 9mths that i love her and she replied me same but not for the purpose of dating. She said she want d intimacy reduced and iI asked for her word which she promise me her love. But since d beginning of this year, her behaviour has changed 4rm what I used 2 know her 4, she seems to be no longer interested. The only thing I can only say may be the cause is may be because I made her understand she is a yr+ Older than me. Now the Holy Spirit is asking me not 2 leave her despite d fact that al she is doing is really hurting me. I feel like leaving her but leaving her will leave behind a huge vacuum Please Sir What should I do? Pls I need a reply in my box & help hid my I.D MY reply so you want to me tell you something contrary to what you believe that the Holy Ghost is telling you? I cant do that....My fear for you is that love has blinded your eyes, so at this stage, all you hear from God, is what you want to hear. I understand. I have been there. All undefined relationships, that were forced into being by pressures of love, always go through lack of concentration, confusion, and distractions to short term goals. Why would you tell a lady I love you, when you are not ready for love? Thats clearly stupidity! and please dont cover it with the Holy Ghost told you not to leave her...Lets assume that God told you about her? Did the Holy Ghost tell you to start up with her? All I can see is, casual friends, that lead to platonic friends, and soon became intimate friends....And now you are saying there may be a vacuum...so why will the Holy Ghost, now tell u not to leave her? Did he tell you to start? Didnt you say it was not time academically, age (I presume maturity) So, pressures forced you together...Alas, Brother, wake UP! Who are you in her life right now? I will tell u...an undefined friend who is playing with the intimacies of love, when he is not ready for the demands and responsibility that follows the weight of love...My Brother, repent! Please go back to your first love and first devotion, before you waste the oil of God on your life. Let this girl be for now. Why did u wake up love before its time? Her behaviour has not changed. She is just not giving you the free intimacy you have been eating for nine full months! If I were you, I would run to the nearest bookshop/contact and grab a copy of the book, WHAT THE RABBIT DID NOT KNOW, lest the rabbit ends up in the belly of the python. This is clearly the reason why I wrote this book. There are just too many sincere anointed young guys and girls in this generation, who did not know what the rabbit did not know, and now, water has mixed with blood. O God save my generation. I will post this without your ID, as you requested, and without your name, so that all can learn. We must save ourselves, we must guard our hearts, we must raise a new generation that while they are single, they are not stupid. There is time for everything. God bless you are you take my rebuke in love and humility, Amen. Remember, if you are heading in the wrong direction, God allows U-Turns.... O Lord, help my brother who is caught up in the vice grip of love to make a decisive U-Turn, and wait for the appropriate time to express love to this lady in Jesus name....and any other person in this same situation, we cry for mercy..grant courage and boldness for them to redefine, repent and realign their relationships to purpose, focus, and maturity in Jesus name...
Posted on: Mon, 07 Apr 2014 21:28:36 +0000
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