Check You Both Have the Same Shared Goals When we first meet and fall in love, we think we know pretty well everything we can about our love. We have so much in common. It all seems so easy, so intuitive, so natural. Of course we want the same. Of course we are two sides of the same coin. Of course we are going to share life’s highway together. Wrong! The highway will diverge at times, and if you arent on the ball, you will lose sight of each other completely and forever. You have to keep checking that you are both using the same map so to speak, both heading for the same destination, both going in the same direction even. So what are your shared goals? Where do you both think you’re going? This principle is about reviewing. To review, you have to talk to your partner about where it is you both think you’re going and what you’re doing. It doesnt have to be heavy. This can be a light review just to touch base and check that you are both on the same track. It doesnt have to be too detailed, just simple questions to confirm a general similar direction, rather than trying to map out an A-to-Z of your future life together. Column Name: NASCON Gist (Principles of Life) Partnership Check You Both Have the Same Shared Goals Tuesday, 22nd July, 2014.
Posted on: Tue, 22 Jul 2014 16:52:55 +0000