Communicate and save your marriage! * If your partner is not used to speaking out, try and watch for his signs of expression.The clues to his feeling may be inexplicable silence, physical withdrawal, and irritability or even unusual eating or spending habits. Any upsetting or exciting event may also engender an emotional build-up. There is, therefore, an urgent need to talk about it. *And lo Before you speak, think the problem through and put it into its proper perspective. An angry outburst can scare your husband`s emotions and create barriers between you. Stop and think before you blurt out what you might regret later on. Prepare to express your feelings without becoming too emotional. Pray for discretion. *Let there be a formal arrangement whenever you intend to communicate an discussed as a weapon later on; and don`t ever go important feeling. You may sit in private setting with your spouse; facing each other in some way, Communicate during bed time or foreplay may also be an effective way of facilitating a more open expression of feeling and it also likely to successful . *Express your feelings in words, so that he will know what`s going on inside you. Your main purpose should be to make your feelings understood, not to demand a change, when he understands how you feel, he may want to change whatever is bothering you. Concentrate on your feelings, not on his fault. *Listen attentively to his own side without interrupting. Don`t ever belittle the other person`s feelings in any way; you should rather be caring and understanding throughout the deliberation. *Being overreacting or over sympathetic in a patronizing manner is not always advisable. Sharing the feelings together is indeed a positive xtericter but out doing it may not be helpful. *Don`t ever use what`s shared, communicated or S Sip with others about the confidentiality entrusted with you. Muslims and Christians couples should learn to communicate freely; discuss a wide range of troubling feelings; express their grievance to each other and avoid making their marital affair an unnecessary point of interest to d third party. Thank You.
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