Crazy! How to tell if you are suffering from it. If you do the same thing over and over and expect a different out come, then youre a qualified nut. I am always late for work. You stay up all night on the phone or watching TV and did not prepare your clothes , food or do whatever else you had to prepare for work. Then in the morning you are scrambling to put things together and time seems to fly by and your whole day seems to conspire against you. However you do it again and again all week... Yet you just cannot understand how you are always late. Why am I always in conflict with my friends? At every opportunity you get, you are on the phone bad mouthing people and then it surprises you when your confidant goes behind your back and does it to you. Then you change friends or reform alliances and bingo, it happens again. Hello, any one home in that head of yours? But no, they are just jealous of me.... Why am I always broke, I never have money. Pay day approaches, the first and dominant thoughts on your mind are... I need to buy this and that, oh and also pay this bill and that bill... The only thought that has no space in your mind is..How much can I save out of this? During the period leading up to pay day, you borrow from the future to satisfy todays desires giving no thought to the consequences. Why not instead control your desires and acknowledge your position not the one you imagine but your true present situation. This is how much I make, this is what I can afford if I am to have any savings or to change my present station in life. Those things looks nice but I cannot afford them. Oh but I am not a slave, I must enjoy life you say. Are you really not a slave? Lets take a look....A slave works for shelter and food and their mind finds no rest because they are constantly worried about tomorrow... They never get to keep what they labored night and day for... Sounds familiar ? If you work and you cannot keep a fraction of what you earn, then you are not better off than a slave. The only difference between you and them are....The slave did not willing choose that life, however you took the chains and shackled yourself willingly and then deluded yourself into thinking you are free and enjoying life. Also the slave never had to house and feed himself, you do..... Does the word crazy come to mind here mmmmhm! My boyfriend / girlfriend is always flirting and staying out late. I thought that they were going to change and settle down as we agreed. Human beings are creatures of habit. No one can change anyone. If you delude yourself into believing that you can change anyone by marrying them or starting a family you are in for a nasty surprise... However time and time again you hear the same people complaining and they end one relationship and jump right back into another with a similar person..... And you want my sympathy? What you need is meds. I can go on and on but this story has already being told...... The cure for crazy is to stop day dreaming and to start thinking.... There is a big difference , try it and see... But this might just be crazy talk. Clyde Viechweg ( reflections in a cold city)
Posted on: Fri, 17 Oct 2014 13:48:03 +0000