Crime Stoppers billboards is up. Maybe this year it will prompt someone to speak up. I have to do everything I can do to make sure Frankies case does not continue to be at the bottom of the pile. I spoke with one of the detectives last week to ask him to try to highlight Frankies case since the billboard was going up and also since this next Monday will make two years since he was Murdered. The detective however reminded me that I had no right to any information in reference to the case and he also told me that Christina was no longer Frankies next of kin! Christina and Frankie were legally married and I would assume she will be his next of kin unless she remarries??? When I get myself together enough for another battle with the City of Houston I will be making some phone calls. At this time our best bet is to sit tight until the case becomes a cold case (one more year) at that time I believe all case files will be available to us. If anyone who reads this knows anyone in the legal field that can explain how all of this works please forward me their information. Another option at this time is to hire a lawyer to file a civil lawsuit against the person Frankie was going to meet that evening. Winning a civil lawsuit is much easier and it could hopefully answer the questions that play over and over in my mind. The civil lawsuit will cost 10,000+. Frankies headstone should be ready and installed by this Friday. I will let everyone know when it is done. I will not be going this year as I have not been to the cemetery since my dad wad buried next to Frankie last July. I may not even post anything this year but certainly not because Ive forgotten Frankie but I am just feeling like I may not post....... So this was just an update to let everyone know that not a single thing has changed. Oh and when I asked the detective for the information on the D.A. that denied taking the case they were forced to tell me that they never even presented it to the D.A.. I wish I was young enough to become a detective and solve this case myself. Well enough Frankie talk. I dont want to loose any of my FB friends. They are the only friends I have left. Although it is common in my situation to lose all whom you were close to its still a loss. I have lost so much in the last two years. I lost my friends, my job of ten years(my coworkers), Frankie, my dad, Father Rivers Patout, and my fave Aunt Julia. I am however beginning to believe that I have gained just as much. While I havent made any new friends or secured another job I do have many many angels in Heaven. It is only by Gods amazing grace that I am here today. I pray that he continues to shine his light on my family by allowing us the constant guidance of our special angels. There is not a doubt in my mind that Frankie did not have a hand in bringing continued happiness to Christina. Throughout her entire pregnancy I was without a worry. I knew she would be fine and I knew baby Ian would be perfect. I know Frankie is smiling down upon us as always and that he is probably shaking his head and thinking I am more craziiiiiii than before. Also want to mention my favorite cousin Sonya M Lopez. She is now a part of my Frankie wall. After Frankie was killed I had the largest wall in my home covered with pictures from Christina and Frankies wedding. When Christina became pregnant I thought I should scale it down. Now it is one picture, a few of his personal items and two things very special to me. The first item is a note from the son of an ex-coworker. He returned graduation cash I gifted him. And the second is a picture of Sonya as a baby. Just recently on a July 27th we spoke briefly on the phone just to be there for each other on the anniversary date of the passing of our fathers. Sonyas father (Tom Butch Lopez) ten years since passing and my dad that passed last year on the same date. During our conversation she asked how my family was doing, she asked how Chris was doing and she asked how I was doing. Not like how are you doing? But how was I doing? For the first time in almost two years someone asked me how I was doing. I was shocked, my voice cracked, I thanked her for asking and I cried. I will never forget that day, I will never ever forget her words and I will never ever ever forget how she and those words made me feel!
Posted on: Wed, 06 Aug 2014 19:57:45 +0000
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