Currently off on my travels for the third time in a week. This time for another seminar. I dont mind though as I just love to educate myself in any way I can and love to get away. Another main reason I enjoy these trips is that its a great opportunity to meet and network with other people who are also seeking what you I am. They have an open mind, want to meet new people, have a positive attitude and want to help others. I find this sort of thing can be lacking a lot in all aspects, especially when somebody chooses to change themselves in some way, even if its to lose a few pounds, gain some lean muscle or to just simply get fitter and feel good. The people around them are all happy for the person and show some encouragement. Them comes the downfall when you start to make real progress and really enjoy this new you. The support soon turns to bitterness and jealousy because of a number of reasons. They cant it dont want to make these changes for themselves, they dont want to see you too happy or sometimes they simply dont understand and dont want to so they choose to criticise instead. You dont need that sort of negativity close to you. If they really were supportive then they wouldnt do it. They would respect and support you no matter what. Theyre simply trying to drain you and bring you down to their level. It may sound harsh but the best way to deal with a situation like this is to just distance yourself from these people. Stick to your real friends and family and seek out others like you and keep pursuing your goal.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Jul 2014 06:50:50 +0000
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