DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH Todays topic: If your loved one has an anger management problem If your loved one has an anger problem, you probably feel like you’re walking on eggshells all the time. But always remember that you are not to blame for your loved one’s anger. There is never an excuse for physically or verbally abusive behavior. You have a right to be treated with respect and to live without fear of an angry outburst or a violent rage. Tips for dealing with a loved one’s anger management problem While you can’t control another person’s anger, you can control how you respond to it: Set clear boundaries about what you will and will not tolerate. Wait for a time when you are both calm to talk to your loved one about the anger problem. Don’t bring it up when either one of you is already angry. Remove yourself from the situation if your loved one does not calm down. Consider counseling or therapy for yourself if you are having a hard time standing up for yourself. Put your safety first. Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe or threatened in any way, get away from your loved one and go somewhere safe. Anger isn’t the real problem in abusive relationships Despite what many people believe, domestic violence and abuse is not due to the abuser’s loss of control over his behavior and temper. In fact, abusive behavior is a deliberate choice for the sole purpose of controlling you. If you are in an abusive relationship, know that couples counseling is not recommended—and that your partner needs specialized treatment, not regular anger management classes.
Posted on: Mon, 21 Oct 2013 14:06:55 +0000
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