Dare I say it, I was crazy for having contact recently with NN,s - TopicsExpress



          

Dare I say it, I was crazy for having contact recently with NN,s mate X3. My intention was to gain information about my daughter hoping in helping him he would help me, I should have known better you can never do enough, give enough or sacrifices enough to please them. I thought my recently gained knowledge would save me and it did on some levels but not all. I never lived with X3 and was only just starting to see his angry side due to the new me drawing boundaries. But Even after knowing what I know I remember looking at him after hearing the news report on the radio, I tried to convinces my self it was him. Even thou the night of the attack he had taken both dogs, mine as well as his, having my little dog out so long and late had prompted me to try to call him, he didn’t answer. But still to call the police on this person before me wasn’t easy and I begun to understand why people stay silent. In the weeks he had been at my houses he had played the victim, I felt sorry for him. (In hind-sight he had played on that) It’s the nice side of them, the person you get if you’re giving them what they want or supporting their denigration of a target that is hard to hurt for normal people with empathy. I feel they really play on people’s empathy, they totally understand how to uses empathy to manipulate. About a week later he was taken in for questioning but not charged and released. I spoke to the police and they said they didn’t think I had anything to worry about. (The system sucks) In the following weeks X3 threatened suicide in attempts to control me (It didn’t work ya me). He had to go! But how with out the anger? Weeks passed with no contact from the police, X3 insisted I listen to the recording of his police interview. That was it! After hearing the lies and that he had sent a text after retuning to my houses, I couldn’t have that in my houses any longer. He was grooming my daughter and NN knows it. The narcissist only allows contact that isn’t good, that lowers self-esteem and assist in control of his victim his/her child. He left the next day. NN has accused me of running X3 out of town in 2008. I would like to take the credit for that but it is just another one of those things they say that just don’t make sense. How doses the target of a narcissistic smear campaign manipulate any one? How do you get to be a loner, looser, not body likes you, a slut, the police want you locked up blarr blarr blarr and still have the power to run some one out of town? NO CONTACT REALY IS THE ONLY WAY! Just saying.
Posted on: Mon, 24 Jun 2013 10:05:14 +0000

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