Dear Zane, I am a young gay boy, im 16 years old. I know this may sounds crazy but, one of my biggest conflicts in life right now is love. Ive had so many horrible and traumatizing experiences with other males. Currently, I have a boyfriend. Ive cheated on him, a horrible mistake Ive made and I dont regret it because if I truly felt something for my boyfriend I wouldnt have considered, let alone slept with another male. The guy that I slept with made me feel so special, we laughed, we sung, we enjoyed each others company, I feel as though im infatuated by him. Ive learned that infatuation can feel a lot like love but, it just simply isnt the same. My dilemma is that Im not certain if I should break up with my boyfriend and start something new with this new guy. I have guys throw themselves at me all the time, but I never know whom to choose, I feelbas though Im obligated to give each of these guys a chance. I feel as though, youll never know unless you try and thats what I try to do but it always ends up in a mess. Im simply tired of dealing with this matter, I just want for a nice, decent, loving, caring, and trustworthy guy. I do not know what to do. Thank you for your time. Sincerely, Anonymous MY RESPONSE: There is a lot going on here but let me first start by saying this: you should not give every young man who approaches you a chance. Everyone is not for everybody and you are way too young to be doing all of this. What you need to do is take your time and enjoy life, be friends with people, and then see who feels like a person who will be compatible with you in most ways. Neither one of these young men sound like they are keepers. There is nothing wrong with being single, especially at 16. Good luck and God bless.
Posted on: Mon, 10 Feb 2014 19:14:56 +0000
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