Disclaimer: *I have been wanting to bring this topic up for a long time now. I just never had the right words nor the right angle for it. Please note I am not posting for the mere sake of sensation,I am honestly interested in the subject. I would like to urge that we withhold our judgements but rather try to learn something new, that may help you in the future. I believe that to find a solution to something we first need to, at the very least try to understand it, even if we fail, but try we must. Once again you dont have to comment, but if you do comment, give it some thought, try not to react, respond rather. You can also inbox if you are burning to say something but are shy...here we go...* There are 4 very powerful women who have something in common other than their power, influence, fame and wealth- That thing is: They have all at some point in their lives dated married men. Those women are Oprah, Iyanla, Maya Angelou and Tina Turner, and I am sure there are many more. These women at some point in their life Journeys dated married men, in fact Oprah is documented as having been obsessed with that married man for a long time. Well as it turns out, a good number of my friends, and as I have admitted before I, myself once dated a married man. What I want to bring to the table (wall) today is The Appeal Of Married Men. It is easy for us to blame and vilify married man for chasing after single women but single women not only warm up to that chase but agree to take things all the way to having a full blown affair. We get into a relationship with these men, real relationships albeit doomed, we still go in. For some the relationship lasts 6 months others 3 years, I also know of someone who was in an 8 year relationship with a married man. I am not talking about the dodgy guy who lied to you about his marital status, I am talking about going in, eyes wide open into a relationship with a married guy who never takes off his wedding band. A guy who told you about his wife and kids from the get go. Yes I am talking about that man, what is the appeal with him? because surely there must be, as I type right now there is a married man & mistress relationship going on at this moment. Which tells you that somehow against our better judgements, regardless of our intelligence there is an irresistible appeal that married men come with, an appeal that defy logic. (of course there is an equal appeal that mistresses (single women) come with, but that is another topic all together) For today, on this beautiful Monday morning I would like to know from you, if you have dated a married man, or seriously considered it, or flirted with him what was the appeal about him? Or if you have not, but have a friend that dated a married man what does she say the appeal was/is? I would also want to know if you think that dating a married man is a phase in most womens lives, the same as a phase of dating younger guys? Or could it be that certain circumstances in our lives can and does push us to these wedded brothers? What is it exactly?
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 05:16:14 +0000
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