Dont let this happen to you because this Im almost 30 and I just reailize my mother is not as perfect as she thinks she is she wears a mask to family and friend because she feels like everbody dont need to know her bizness y would she? when shes emotionally spiritually psychologically damaging the child and belittling the child as a child your mother is the only person you really know if your fathers not in your life just like a slave plantation the slaves dont know anyone or anything but the plantation and what the slave owner teaches the slave the slave owner whips the slave and tells them they love them by calling them degrading names because they know they dont have a choice until that slave realizes he is a slave and wants to break free from the slave owner but when he rebels then the slave owner wants to kill him as a slave owner you have no right to even have slaves let alone when a slave realizes he has been damaged and this can damage his legacy and everything he stands for and his integrity his manhood or your womanhood you have no rights because everyone says to me damn thats sad to hear but its your mother thats just like saying damn youre a slave thats sad but thats your slave owner and that make it right? she has raised me to be an narcissist my fathers as well even tho I never really got to meet and know him until I was 21 and I still dont know nothing about him or my mother the neglect & abuse I have seen my father have towards my half brother when I moved to Atlanta at 21 has showed me it very important to know your history definitely your family history because u may b doing something that may have been passed down thru your d&n witch is really a memory bank stored with all are worse experiences people we were not able to forgive people we didnt receive enough love from and thru my experience in life with raising a child (witch I dont have) people say I dont know anything because I dont have any kids nobody really does just know I dont have any because of so many reasons Ive learned n life you have to have a balance it cannot just be spoiling the child work 9 to 5 and working to give you a check$$$ out of all these things your not truly spending the time going to the park really appreciating your child for their artistic views and respecting how they mature and grow and putting yourself into their shoes and knowing that you were their age at one point in time and you were doing maybe even dumber things at their age I need some help I know we all need some help but this is something that I realize I would not pass on to my seeds jah bless you all
Posted on: Sat, 10 Jan 2015 19:37:33 +0000
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