Dont pretend to forgive someone if you havent. First of all, you - TopicsExpress



          

Dont pretend to forgive someone if you havent. First of all, you deny yourself the gift that owning and processing your feelings, including your anger, gives you. If you pretend you are over it when you arent guess what? You repress that, take all that anger and hurt into your next relationship, and repeat the cycle. Also, this I forgive you thing is so often just a way of saying because I am superior to you and and can forgive from my lofty special spiritual place. Its the egos arrogance in disguise. My best advice? Feel what you feel. Dont ignore it, deny it, or shame yourself for it. If you feel angry, sad, betrayed, go meditate with it, embrace and process and learn from it. Your other balancing side then will finally have a chance to break through honestly. And when it does, still forget about forgiving the other person. Forgive YOURSELF. Its harder. But if you forgive yourself you by default forgive all. -Dreyana x
Posted on: Tue, 11 Mar 2014 13:13:22 +0000

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