EXACTLY!!!!! PROBLEM: He uses your children as a tool to control you. SOLUTION: Affirm that you owe it to yourself and your children to immediately stop this unhealthy behavior. Therefore, flat out refuse to allow yourself to be manipulated to conform to his wishes. Know that this kind of manipulation is not about your childrens well being, but is all about his unwillingness to accept reality and move on. PROBLEM: He will not pay child support unless you do what he wants. SOLUTION: File a petition in court requesting support. If he has already been ordered to pay support and still refuses, return to court and ask the judge to enforce the order. Do not play into his hand by giving in to his demands, nor should you repeatedly ask him for support on your own. The reason why you were required to go to court in order to resolve your marriage is because, legally, the court has jurisdiction over the terms of its dissolution. When an order has been made (or needs to be made), rely on the courts to enforce it. Your ex wants to unnerve you until you conform to his wishes, but if you show him that he will need to answer to the courts if he doesnt do what is right, he will get the message that you are serious and unafraid to pursue yours and your childrens interests.
Posted on: Wed, 06 Aug 2014 22:50:41 +0000
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