Each soul’s definition of right and wrong is based on their sanskars and their environmental conditioning. So in the same situation, two souls will have a different definition of what is right and what is wrong. While giving advice to someone in conflict, show them the perspective of the other person, which they themselves cannot see. Even if you are in pain, do not hold the other person responsible for your pain. When we blame, it blocks our energy of love. When we don’t blame, it means we accept them completely. If we create thoughts for someone that they are wrong, then very soon they will feel that we are wrong. Now both the people will reject each other and this is disrespect. If we get hurt, let us take personal responsibility for creating the hurt. Let us not blame others for our pain. We cannot love people whom we hold responsible for our pain. If we are not judgmental about the other person and also do not hold them responsible for our emotions, then we are accepting them completely. When we accept them, we will get acceptance from them. This is respect and love. When someone shares their problem or mistakes with us, if we are judgmental, then we are rejecting them. Continuous rejection from us will stop them from sharing with us. Role of parent or friend is to be a counselor, which means to be non-judgmental. Accept unconditionally. Our love and acceptance is the healing for them, heal them and then give advice. Your Divine Friend
Posted on: Fri, 12 Jul 2013 05:04:03 +0000
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