Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband There it is, as plain as the speck in your brothers eye. Guys, you need to love your wife. You need to lay your life down for her in the same manner that Jesus laid His life down for us. You need to suffer long and be kind. You need to lose that envy just because she gets attention that you want. You need to stop parading around like a peacock in season. Dont be puffed up and, for the love of God, stop behaving rudely. Dont spend so much time trying to do your own thing and dont get mad because your wife wants to spend time with you. One thing that definitely needs to change is the way you get mad at her. Dude! Stop it. And that whole thing about having to be right even to the point of lying, what kind of victory is that? It would be better to humble yourself, even if you know you are right than keep the argument going. As a husband you need to bear all things, believe all things, hopes all things, and endure all things. Thats your job as a husband. Ladies, this isnt a slam on guys. If you want a real marriage than you have work to do too. You need to R.E.S.P.E.C.T your man. I know, I know. Its so easy to nag, especially when you are right all the time. WRONG. You are not. When did it become okay to turn husbands into Court Jesters? If you want a real man, you will have to treat him like one. Of course, I can hear some of you asking, How can I treat him like a real man when he acts like a child? Thats a great question. Im glad you asked. Let me ask you a question. If you cant respect your husband who you can see, how can you respect the God that commanded you to do that, whom you cant see? Marriage isnt a game. We need to stop playing by schoolyard rules. Instead we need to conduct ourselves like vessels of life and treat each other the way God said to. Guys, love your wives. Dont treat them like objects of self gratification or household servants. Wives, respect your guy. Dont treat him with contempt. Pretend that you and he are co-heirs with Christ and that you are part of a kingdom that doesnt do things like the world. Dont treat each other the way you want to be treated. Give to one another in a way that is sacrificial but do it without expecting anything in return. Then your marriage will be like Jesus.
Posted on: Sat, 19 Oct 2013 02:41:54 +0000
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