Ever since you started your relationship, what have you added to the life of your partner and what has he or she added to yours, even in your marriage? Remember when someone adds something to your life its not accounted for by the material things being given to you but how that person has helped you grow in life as an individual. Most relationships and marriages fail most times because, we fail to ask ourselves some very important questions before going into it and even while in it. Have you ever asked yourself; why am i going into this relationship, why am i dating him/her why do i want to marry him/her, what is my motive of being with this person. is it a pure or polluted motive? Come to think of it, your being maltreated in the relationship, you dont see yourselves having a future, he/she doesnt care about you but will only use you as a tool to satisfy selfish need, you know all these, why then are you still the relationship? Are you waiting to be completely destroyed before you leave? Dont think you can change people all in the name of love. People only change when they see the necessity for a change; otherwise they pretend to have changed just to Please you and get what they want for the time being and after that, they revel the real them. Thats why a lot of people after some years of marriage this is what they always ask; is this the man/woman i married or i used to know Please be wise so that you can avoid this question. If someone is attracted to you try and find out why, dont just fall for it. A little piece of advice pals, from time to time ask your boyfriend/girlfriend /fiance /fiancee /husband /wife and even friends: what have i added to your life since we met each other, have I effected your life positively or negatively. Dont be surprised by the shocking answers you would receive and dont be surprised too if the person stammers before giving you an answer. If non of you have being able to effect each others life, it then means you have been robbing and waisting each others time. it were better you let that person go than you continue because it will lead you guys no were. But if you are married Please, think of how you can add something to your life so that you can effect the life of your partner positively. God bless you! Iyalla Chris Peniel.
Posted on: Tue, 16 Sep 2014 19:23:24 +0000
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