Everyone Should Take Note! Does He.... Ignore your feelings? Disrespect you? Ridicule or insult you then tell you its a joke, or that you have no sense of humor? Withhold approval, appreciation or affection? Give you the silent treatment? Walk away without answering you? Criticize you, call you names, yell at you? Humiliate you privately or in public? Roll his or her eyes when you talk? Give you a hard time about socializing with your friends or family? Tell you that you are too sensitive? Hurt you especially when you are down? Have unpredictable mood swings, alternating from good to bad for no apparent reason? Present a wonderful face to the world and is well liked by outsiders? Twist your words, somehow turning what you said against you? Try to control decisions, money, even the way you style your hair or wear your clothes? Complain about how badly you treat him or her? Threaten to leave, or threaten to throw you out? Say things that make you feel good, but do things that make you feel bad? Seem to stir up trouble just when you seem to be getting closer to each other? Compliment you enough to keep you happy, yet criticize you enough to keep you insecure? Manipulate you with lies and contradictions? Drive like a road-rage junkie? Act immature and selfish, yet accuse you of those behaviors? Question your every move and motive, somehow questioning your competence? Interrupt you; hear but not really listen? Make you feel like you cant win? Try to convince you he or she is right, while you are wrong? Frequently say things that are later denied or accuse you of misunderstanding? You express your opinions less and less freely. You find yourself walking on eggshells, careful of when and how to say something. You find yourself making excuses for his behavior. You feel emotionally unsafe. You feel its somehow not OK to talk with others about him. You hope things will change...especially through your love and understanding. You find yourself doubting your memory or sense of reality. You doubt your own judgment. You doubt your abilities. You feel vulnerable and insecure. You are becoming increasingly depressed. You feel increasingly trapped and powerless. You have been or are afraid of him. If you feel your relationship may be verbally and emotionally abusive, reach out for help now! Talk to friends, family or even a therapist. Professional help may be just what you need. Dont let this relationship go any further! Good luck ladies!
Posted on: Wed, 16 Apr 2014 11:45:57 +0000