FEATURED LETTER On IT’S COMPLICATED with ALEX “Dating my friend’s ex” Hey Alex! How are you? You may call me JB. I know there’s a rule between “bros” about not dating their ex. But for me I think as long as they are over and done with for good, the girl is fair game -- if she didn’t break my friend’s heart by cheating on him. Anyway, “CJ” and I are not really that close. We don’t call each other to hang out. We don’t play basketball or any sports together. We just known each other at school before and we used to be workmates for a long time… So CJ went out with “Anna” for three years and they had their on-and-off moments during that time. CJ cheated on Anna she found out, and they have now been broken up for three months. CJ is dating another girl now, and last week I dated Anna. I told CJ about it straight up, like a man. But he got so mad, getting very angry with me and calling Anna the B word. Now it’s not like Anna and I went out to take revenge on him or anything. We are merely two single people just having fun. I don’t think CJ should be all mad because he is the stupid one who cheated on Anna. Anyway, Alex what do you think? I also wanna know what other men would think about this and about the “don’t date your friend’s ex” rule? Am I a totally bad friend because I didn’t follow one of the “bro codes” - which is that you are not supposed to go out with a friend’s ex -? If I never talk to CJ again I don’t really care. But I just want to know if I did something wrong. Thanks! ~ah the bro code. (praise you barney stinson :P )correct me if I’m wrong but most guys take this seriously. But hey we also have our own rules. You thinking that the ex is a fair game, is your rule. You told CJ about it but have you considered telling Anna that it can be very awkward? Dude, they went out for 3 years! Plus, how sure are you that he cheated on Anna? Who’s your source? Bottomline is… (this goes for everyone) you have to be very very careful in handling another guy’s ex. Whether it’s a friend or just an acquaintance… ex is a part of someone’s life. just saying. Goodluck, bro. :P How about you guys, what do you think?
Posted on: Tue, 02 Jul 2013 05:20:01 +0000
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