FEATURED LETTER on IT’S COMPLICATED with ALEX “Guilty” Hi Dj Alex! Call me Shana and please help me… any advice will do… I have a boyfriend of five months who loves me so much. And I feel guilty about the couple of times I cheated on him and can’t forgive myself. Anyway this past week, we took a break because I couldn’t bear the guilt anymore, knowing that he’s faithful while I was being such a cheating girlfriend. Last week, I told him that I don’t deserve him and that he’s too attached. He didn’t want to leave my house and it was hurting him so bad knowing I was breaking up with him, so I told him that it’s his fault and that he needs to fix some stuff about him. But he’s honestly perfect. He constantly communicated with me while we were on a break. He was simply asking me to give him one last chance and if it doesn’t work, he says, he was going to leave me. I took the offer and we’re back together. I didn’t want him to suffer anymore because of my mistake. I am such a horrible person and I didn’t realize that he was such a good person. Now, I am contemplating whether I should tell him or not. If I tell him, he’ll be hurt and we’re done for forever. If I don’t tell him, the guilt will kill me. I promised myself I wouldn’t cheat on him anymore because he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. What should I do? ~ Grrr!! I feel bad for the guy… sya pa yung naguilty. Seriously, though. If you can’t go 5 months without cheating on someone (multiple times!?!), you shouldn’t be in that relationship. I also think it’s really, REALLY sh!tty that you didn’t come clean in light of your cheating being a repeated conscious choice. That said, you’re not a horrible person; you just made some mistakes. Break up with the guy (cleanly! and permanently!) and work on yourself. But what do you guys think?
Posted on: Tue, 06 Aug 2013 04:51:13 +0000
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