FQ: I need advice It doesnt really have a lot to do with my pregnancy but its starting to cause a lot of stress. So before I met my husband when I was first stationed where we live I got a cat since I was alone and have had him for 2 years then the hubby comes into the picture we get married, boom baby and my cat is a super laid back cat only issues were having is normal at issues getting up on the counters, knitting on furniture which I totally understand is my fault for not training him more when I first had him. But now were 3 weeks away from our daughter being born and the past month or two, the cat has been laying on the babies crib, bassinet, and yesterday (which set my husband off) he jump into the pack and play and right after being in the litter box and their was a little litter in there. This is causing more and more fights with my husband he feels like I always defend him, says he feels like I care about the cat more then him and our baby on the way. And it really hurts he he gets soo mad at the cat, and I dont know what to do I cant just get rid of the cat hes like family to me (might sound weird but I feel that way). I just wish he wouldnt get so mad at him and threaten to put him outside and not let him back in. Im just really hurt and torn I dont know how to treat this situation, please help if you can
Posted on: Thu, 19 Jun 2014 16:05:00 +0000