FROM:Lis Sun Sharing a post on overload and meltdown, recounting my personal experiences on both roles - the person in meltdown; and the person on the sideline watching someone in meltdown. Highlights: * How overloads and meltdown affect each other * The higher frequency of meltdown for aspies * The coping process * The pressure to reboot * What it does to relationships - Aspie + NT - Aspie + Aspie - What to expect and not expect * The waiting out * What it takes to wait it out with your partner - The uncertainties and risks * The reality of meltdown * The rewarding part of waiting it out with the partner Meltdowns can be damaging to a relationship (romantic, familiar, or friendly). Acknowledging it in its plainest essence may help people in riding it out. It is hard and it takes work, but to be helpful, we have to stop justifying it. There is no should or should not. It just is.
Posted on: Sat, 10 May 2014 12:24:31 +0000
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