Fan Question - I always read your page, its awesome how everyone helps so much with support and opinions, so could you please post this for me. I have 2 children, an almost 4 yrs old and a 1 yr old and Im expecting in april. My 4 yr old is being tested this week for autism, he is most likely high functioning. My fiance, their dad works lot, he is home every night now, but the last 2 yrs he was an over the road trucker, home once a month or 2. So its just been me and the kids a lot. My 4 yr old runs, jumps, climbs, screms, grabs a lot, Ive gotten use to it, and dealing with it, like pick your battles, cuz I dont hve enough energy to tell him no on everything, its part of who he is. My fiance is now a Local manager, has the most patience with ppl Ive ever seen. EXCEPT with our son. He has 3 kids from a previous marriage, that seem to have been perfect (sarcasm), cuz they had specific bed times, cody the 4 yrs old doesnt, he could fall asleep at 9 or 2am, its when his energy runs out. He doesnt understnd all these things, complaining of him jumping and climbing. Dont get me wrong he loves our son and he plays with him, but he just doesnt get the way he acts all the time, and constantly says, well we will just let him rule the house. Which I hate and hurts, and Ive said so. We fight so much when he is home cuz I let him jump and climb, you cant stop him, been doing it since a year and half, its a routine for him. My question is, has anyone else had difficulties with their spouse who isnt with the child 24/7 like I am. So they dont see it all. And if so how did you deal with it. When my fiance is home, its 10x more stressful on my son and i. Please help.
Posted on: Tue, 19 Nov 2013 19:27:53 +0000
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