First off, I know there are some real abusers and some real lowlifes out there, so what Im about to say doesnt apply to them. Im talking about most men. Just the average, everyday man. Ladies are so quick to judge men, compare them to some leading actor in a romantic Hollywood movie, call them a moron when they dont take out the trash or an idiot when they leave a pen in the pants that you just pulled out of the washer. It would be totally unacceptable for a man to speak to a woman that way. What a double standard. If you want to be treated like a queen, then stop treating your husband like a dunce. Do little acts of kindness for him-- put his toothpaste on his toothbrush. Have his towel, washcloth, clean pjs and underwear ready for him beside the shower when he gets home from work. Call him sweety or baby. Write him a sweet note (no, not a honey do list). Rub his feet-- and dont you dare say eww. Rub the mans tired hands and feet. Watch him relax and enjoy it. Feel the callouses on his hands... Thank him for the work he does that caused those callouses. Zip it! I dont care if he hasnt thanked you for all the work youve done! Thats not the point. Stop thinking about yourself and think about him. Now, THANK HIM. Make your home a place of serenity. A place he cant wait to come home to after a long day. Think of his favorite meal, his favorite desert... Have it waiting for him. Cant cook? Learn. Dont have time? Cancel a shopping trip, or a salon appointment, or a manicure. Throwing a pot roast in the crockpot takes less than a minute, and scratch made biscuits take about 15 minutes. Made from scratch cookies, maybe 15-20 minutes. Stop insulting your husband. Stop. Dont insult him behind his back, and dont insult him to his face. Dont do it PERIOD. Yeah yeah yeah, he gets on your nerves. Ok, well Im sure your snarky attitude and dirty looks are pretty annoying too. You can build up your husband, or you can tear him down. If you want to be respected, then be respectful. If you want to feel loved, then show love. If you want to be complimented, then give a compliment. If you want to feel like a queen, then treat him like a king. If you want a better marriage, then try bettering yourself. Be the change you want to see in your marriage :)
Posted on: Fri, 22 Nov 2013 21:28:52 +0000
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