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Food for thought::: If this offends, I apologize.. I often lack tact and I dont sugar-coat things.. Okay.. I see in this group and other aspie groups that people mention they are lonely and have no friends Socialization is not easy for us, but there are things we can all do to fix this dilemma. Sometimes taking a good honest look at ourselves and changing some things can do the most good. There may be a reason why someone is lonely and has no friends. Figuring out that reason and fixing/changing can help. Ive made a few awesome friends in Aspie groups.. So for those who are needing a friend, start there! AS is NOT an excuse to have a shitty life. We all can live large and be a success! But.. you need to live life on your terms! No sense trying to bend yourself into knots to fit someone elses idea of who you should be. Be yourself... love yourself...respect yourself.. Do whatever you damned well please..... without harming anyone else. And... if you hurt someone else... apologize, and try not to do it again!! I learned early on that I had to be responsible for my own actions. Having AS is not an excuse to be an asshole. Yes, sometimes I am an asshole, but I apologize, make things right and move on. Lastly, do not rely on others for your own happiness. Happiness comes from within. Delete those that are toxic from your life, and move on. If nothing changes, nothing changes!
Posted on: Sun, 25 May 2014 14:22:57 +0000

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