"Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." -Proverbs 22:15, Fortunately, this proverb is often cited as a mandate for good parenting. Unfortunately, those who usually cite it are taking it totally out of context and are therefore, misrepresenting the heart of its message. This is not a passage calling for parents to use corporal punishment; instead, it is one that speaks volumes of truth about the nature of children and the vital role that we play in their development. When the writer of proverbs penned this, the rod of correction he speaks of is the staff of a shepherd in the fields. This rod would guide the sheep away from danger and steer them towards green pastures and clear water. It was not used to beat the sheep into submission. It was used to gently steer them in the right direction. When your kids do the most ridiculous things, remember that being foolish comes naturally to them. It is our job to guide them by showing them what choices they have and what the consequences of those choices are. Think of yourself more like a shepherd and less like a bouncer and your relationship with your kids is bound to improve.
Posted on: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 08:51:27 +0000
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