For those that think their negative actions and behaviors go unnoticed and dont matter....that there will be no consequences, and that their life will be smooth sailing.....I would like to interject some thoughts along that line. What we do matters. If we are not good to other people, it DOES matter. We may not feel the results of this right away but we will eventually face those consequences. When others are not good to us , this same rule applies. It is the basic law of cause and effect. Never try to make another persons consequences come around. If you go at that you only create more bad to come your way. You have to trust that life equals all things out and if someone wrongs you, all you need to do is let go and step out of the way and life will bring them the consequences. If you hold on waiting to see the moment someones consequences come around, you will wait forever because your intention is contaminated with your own anger, revenge and resentment, This is why so many great leaders, speakers and teachers talk about keeping good company and staying away from negative and toxic people. Negativity is contagious. This doesnt mean we cannot love those who are negative on a high level of unconditional love, but when we really love someone who is harmful to us, we know that it is not only an act of self-love - but also a high level of love to step away from them and let them experience the natural consequences their abusive behavior brings. Letting go is often hard but it also sets you free, and it sets the other person who has been harmful free, to continue to create the consequences for themselves that will ultimately be their best teacher. You have a right to protect your heart and your sanity... this is self-loving and boundaries are a high level of love to give to someone in your life who needs them.
Posted on: Fri, 08 Aug 2014 03:13:21 +0000
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