For your kind information, i disclose a real story took place in 1996? in Udupi Taluk. She was a Muslim girl, but still minor (from legal point of view) aged about 17. She was with her grand parents house. The family was very decent. One fine morning, she eloped with her lover, who was Hindu belonging to Pujari caste. A meticulous effort was done to trace her & complaint was also lodged in her locations police station. The SI was very friend of me ( i was politically in good position at that time) & he put his sincere effort to trace her out. But, everything went in vain. No trace nor any news about their whereabouts. I think the family forgot her though they had a deep sadness about her dissappearance & then heard news of her marriage with the Hindu boy. After around 18 years of her disappearance, she appeared one fine morning in front of her parents house with a boy of 15 years of age...........!!!!! Who is that boy? Where is her Hindu Loved husband?? What happened to her & her husband?? He was a drunkard though initially he posed himself as a decent. Flirtinting, romancing, colorful dreams ( in wrong place), parents missing happiness ( ???!!!!) etc...seemed to come to an end when he was beating her & shouting her-go to your home; you came with me with Ahamkaara/charbi....... Moreover, several usages of bad languages were tasted by the girl. Finally he left her in his (husbands) parents house & he lived separately with another woman of his own caste?. His old aged father also kicked his bucket (died) one day. Oh.....horrible life.... what should i do; where should i go; should i go back to my parents house; would they accept me; fears upon fears.........100 questions arose in her mind. She was totally hopeless. He was no more contact with her. Time has passed like this for several years. Finally, she decided to leave his house & do some labor work for her living. She shifted to her nearby industrial area, where she joined to work as a laborer. She had to go to job place at 7 am & return around 5 pm. It went like this for few years..... Days were not happy or any more romantic. She started repenting for her own mistakes & charbi. Her burden grew day by day & tension escalated to higher level of pains... By means, she got her parents number & called one day to her mother. She got surprised, but reluctant to accept her. Her mother informed this news to her father. He was more adamant & tough to accept her & warned his wife not to receive more calls from her. Times went like this for few months. The father consulted with his relatives & friends regarding this. Yes.....She suffered a lot & faced a lot of problems & difficulties for her own mistakes. She cried alone sometimes out side her hut; no one to help her as she reduced her self to the level of chewed bites because of her own fault. When she flashed back to her pasts, the memory of her parents including her grand parents care & affection never comforted her because she totally ignored & didnot care them only for this Boy....that too boy of not her Religion. She did not care her religion at all. At one point, she might have thought of committing suicide...but there was again a problem. She led her life between Live & Death though she was alright physically, but not mentally. Past was gone that was horrible; she tried to foresee her future, but that was also a full of darkness & clouds. She never got comforts & happiness with the Lover boy, who was a big cheater & was lustful for her body. What she thought was ideal & what she suffered was the reality. Now she came out of simple ideal zone to the zone of reality. But, it was too late. She was not in the hands of care & affection, which her parents supposed to provide. Her parents were not poor to breed & feed her. But, she had lost that chance, unfortunately. As a last effort thinking that no problem even if her parents kill her, came one day with the boy of 15 to her parents house. Or i think her father brought her to his house...either way???. Now she is with her parents house. She is happy pnce again, but the past incident never makes her feel mentally happy in its true sense. I never disclosed who was that boy. Right?. The boy is none other than her one & only son born to that non-Muslim;, because of him she changed her mind of committing suicide at one point. Because of him, she became hopeful & because of him she dared to call her parents. Sorry to say....now the son is fatherless though his father is still alive being non-Muslim. All because of her mistakes.....because of her sins, because of her careless to her DEEN. Alhamdullilah. ...hope now she is leading a Islamic life & her son is given all islamic rituals like Circumcision etc... But, unluckily, her grand parents ( mothers father & mother), who were suffering a lot from her dissappearance & more on her marriage with a non-muslim for long times, are no more in this world to see her again. She rejoined her family just one year back; I kept her name & her parents name & her exact place confidential because of honor to be given to the family. My only purpose to say this story is to create some awareness amongst our Muslim families & to take care of their children, especially girls. I request to respected members of this Group to spread this story to many Muslims so that they will take care of their daughters, sisters & other female relatives. Sorry.......if in any corner, anyone of this Group knows this family or related to them, please take it in a broad sense for the general benefit. That is why, i never disclosed their name & exact place. May Allah protect us from all evils & bad doings.
Posted on: Sun, 30 Nov 2014 10:13:05 +0000
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