Friday Friend Letter: Neither of my bfs have had a boyfriend. Theyre scared they never will. What can I say to stop them worrying? My reply: You can’t say anything you haven’t already said to get them to “stop worry” about their ability to attract and keep a guy. We’re talking about self-confidence (which you obviously have and they seem to lack in this area). If you felt the way they do, is there anything a good friend could say to get you to stop worrying? I doubt it. They are just going to have to figure this out for themselves… first step for them is that they need to totally love and accept themselves just the way they are. With that self-love comes the realization that a) they are fine, complete and the rest of it WITHOUT a boyfriend. b) the right person for me will love and accept me too. Without the first part, the second part is much much harder to achieve. Make sense? I hope so. Try that on your friends. If they continue worrying (out loud) please tell them (kindly) that you dont want to hear this anymore and change the subject. In friendship, Terra
Posted on: Fri, 17 Jan 2014 20:56:30 +0000
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