From a new FB friend Mr. Khoo Kheng-Hor: Sun Tzu wrote some 2,500 years ago in the Art of War that: "The supreme strategy is to win without fighting." But few people, realize how simple it is: Listen to your partner when he or she is angry. Listen to understand WHY that person is so upset rather than hurrying to explain because explaining is a total waste of effort since no explanation is useful without any understanding of the root of the problem. At times, there is no need for words - just give your partner a hug when he or she is sad. The more depressed, the bigger the hug. Hugs can melt anger and sadness. Yes, even when a person has an angry face, deep inside, he or she yearns to be loved, and a hug symbolizes love. Laughter, as they say, is the best medicine, and is a good approach because if used cleverly, can work wonder in diffusing a tense situation or temperament. If you really want your relationship to work, love more and argue less. AGREE ALL?
Posted on: Sat, 29 Jun 2013 05:26:36 +0000
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