GIVE TO EVERYONE WHO MAY BE INTERESTED ABOUT A CONCEPT OR DEFINITION ABOUT OWN YOUR LIFE REALLY. THANKS FOR READING. Perhaps! Perhaps you have had a dream that you would become a leader someday, being able to guide people in life. As you matured, with time and your surrounding passing by, have you asked yourself do you really know the way to lead yourself? Using different perspectives, whether they are based on current world events or from some underlying motives, to be a useful person for society is always the ultimate goal; simple or difficult? From my own experience, I feel that time would be able to make an innocent child become a wise man, being able to recognize all of his worldly surrounding. Have you ever feel isolated, lost, hungry, or abused? Were you grown up with tears and blood? Perhaps it sounds terrible, but that is the experience some people have to face in this world. How do we accept it and let bygone be bygone is the problem. Perhaps through some actions, you have become a hero in someone’s eyes. But because of the satisfaction that you have had with yourself, you might lose your ways in life; and the hero will just be an immature child in people’s views. This could just be what you are reminiscing about your past, of what your action could make an impact on your life. Have you ever wake up in the middle of the night, dreaming about that second where you have made the wrong choice and you have to pay the price for it? Was it the price of prestige or love? If not, you should experience it. Have you ever heard people admitting: “I have been wrong but I do not have enough strength to admit that guilt. Even though I am still myself, I am lost with no way out.” Is this the end of the beginning for people who can’t think for themselves? You can find out your own answer. Perhaps you are familiar with the saying “better now than nothing,” “nothing is impossible, etc…” while these sayings may sound redundant and boring, their virtues are true; there are lessons in life that we could apply these virtues such that we won’t fall because of our arrogance, but thrive because we are able to look into ourselves and strive towards a more complete self. Sometimes, we have to anticipate that bad things will happen; but if we are smart, why don’t we fix things before they become bad? Anticipation is a necessary skill that we need to use often in life. Relentlessly trying for an unreachable goal; we are prone to waste effort when we are lost. Don’t worry or be hasty, time is necessary for us to learn from our mistake and others when we were arrogant. But do use that confidence to apply the experience in our life. Trust and happiness go hand in hand together. If you don’t have trust in other people nor do the people in you, living only for yourself is not happiness. You have to trust yourself first; only then will you find happiness in trusting other people and gaining their trust. Can you listen to people? Can you share their sadness and help them escape from it? Use your experience to help them; that is the quality of a future leader, for people to see you as a person that they can trust. By understanding what you need and what they need, you can help them seeing a positive world; don’t take advantage of them for your own good, you could degrade your spirit from it. Life itself is very dynamic. Have you ever wondered what people like Einstein, Hitler, or Napoleon, etc… were born to do? Some contributed significantly to the advancement of science, while others brought nothing but destruction. All of us carry in ourselves a spirit, a mind, and a dignity as a person. If we could recognize that, then we should be able understand and be forgiving of other people. People might have thought that in order to convince the mass, one must leverages power, domination, and violence on others; but what about the past intellects, whose contribution has help improving our lives, they were all respected and some were even worshipped. While we might not become the next great evil or scientist, we still need to contribute our good deed to society, to protect the rights in the world; no matter how small those deeds are, they will be your sacrifices for the future that the next generation can look upon. Very few people can smile and love unconditionally, and fill their lives of nothing but happiness. Because of life and death, you are actively thinking about changes in society, as well as changes in your immediate health. What is time? Who is time? Has time brought you unavoidable consequences, like tiredness, wariness, and sadness? Be optimistic, look at the belief in yourselves; it can help refueled you and make you look forward to a brighter day ahead, believing in life. As time slowly treaded away, did you find yourself sometimes living in the past? Dreaming about power, money, and love; imagining your past as part of a classic movie? Everybody has done that. When people look up to the peaceful blue sky, few will realize the brown earth below has been gathering much of its sunshine and thunders. A powerful storm can come in a blink of an eye; but in the midst of that dark, scary storm, you might see a ray of light, perhaps from its thunder. No matter how fast the lightning comes and goes, this is the moment that you can see yourselves clearest in life. Through the darkest hour of your life, through countless defeats, friends and family can be your other rays of light to help brighten your sky. Don’t fall into a dark bottomless pit, with the lights surrounding you, find your belief and ask yourselves: “who do you live for?” Don’t waste your life because of the little things, jealousy, money, hatred, etc… You won’t gain anything and people won’t see anything; why waste it for nothing? Don’t talk about the negatives, but instead look forward to your goal in life. Look into your heart and ask yourselves the simplest question that you can. This is the first step to change your structured lifestyle. You can talk about yourself, your ability to work, love, and care; but don’t talk about others when their ability could be so much more than yours, even if it seems so unrealistic. You shouldn’t be jealous and suspicious of them. Learn to be happy for them and learn from them, when they could have the strength and pride to convey them to an unrealistic level. This skill will help you not be afraid when you present your opinions. The world is constantly changing; thus we have to develop ourselves continuously such that we can easily adapt to any society and make the right decision in our life. You should be careful in choosing what you want to learn, whether it is in history, technology, writings, or languages, etc… Society can be a fragile place for you to learn these things. In order to learn about society better, you need to have your own opinion and adaptability since that opinion could easily clash with that of others. That is the rule of life and you would need to understand yourself better in it. It is easy to look back in the past; but it is hard to judge yourself in it, to see what you have gained or loss spiritually or academically. In the near future, you will see that your contribution is helping to make our planet better for all. In the river of life, when we can’t set sail anymore, we could just stop and dock our boat at any port. Any change is accepted as long as you are still alive, have belief in yourselves and sympathy for others.
Posted on: Thu, 25 Jul 2013 00:00:27 +0000
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