Global Muslim Women 7 minutes ago Islam doesnot want to impose an unbearable burden on women by forcing them to marry a man they dislike, because it wants marriages to be successful, based on compatibility between the partners; there should be common ground between them in terms of physical looks, attitudes, habits, inclinations and aspirations. If something goes wrong, and the woman feels that she cannot love her husband sincerely, and fears that she may commit the sin of disobeying and opposing this husband whom she does not love, then she may ask for a divorce. This is confirmed by the report in which the wife of Thabit ibn Qays ibn Shammas, Jamilah the sister of `Abdullah ibn Ubayy, came to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, I have nothing against Thabit ibn Qays as regards his religion or his behavour, but I hate to commit any act of kufr when I am a Muslim. The Prophet said: Will you give his garden back to him? - her mahr had been a garden. She said, Yes. So the Messenger of Allah sent word to him: Take back your garden, and give her one pronouncement of divorce. According to a report given by Bukhari from Ibn `Abbas, she said, I do not blame Thabit for anything with regard to his religion or his behavior, but I do not like him.
Posted on: Mon, 18 Nov 2013 17:10:11 +0000
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