Good evening I must say I enjoy going through your page even though I dont comment a lot. I need your advice on something that is bothering me and what I should do about it. It has not been easy for my husband since we married some years ago. In order for him not to feel his situation so much, if there is any bill to be paid, I give him the money to do the payment do that he can be in charge but the problem is if for example we are to pay N5000 for water bill and I give him the money he will only pay N2000 and will not let me know till the bill piles and piles and I am forced to pay for what I have paid for before. On one occasion I decided to make the payment of some bills on my own and he got very angry claiming that I want to show the world that I am the one bringing but his accountability is breaking my heart. The one that is paining me now is that our landlord has sent us a quit notice claiming that we have not paid our house rent for two years and I know I have been giving my husband the money to pay the rent. What do I do? MY RESPONSE Thank you for the confidence bestowed on me. It is an honor. Now, for your situation, my advice may not suffice. I have very brilliant friends who can be of immense help more than I would be. I hope you dont mind my putting this up on my page for the consequent advises. Besides, I believe that there are people out there having similar challenges be it man or woman and I would love them to benefit from the advises as well. I will put up the post today and by tomorrow when wed have gotten an adequate amount, we can then rub minds together on the way forward. The very best I wish you. Well chat again tomorrow God willing. NB -The lady in question wrote in short hand and I had to modify in long hand for better understanding. She gave her permission for me to post this before some will start asking me WAEC questions. -This is a serious issue and should be accorded the seriousness it deserves. -This should not be made a gender or feminist post as I believe that there are women out there who are also unaccountable to their husbands. However, a woman sent this. If and when a man sends me his challenge, I will post as well if permission is granted. Thank you. #ReallySmilingAtThisSituationWithUnderstanding...
Posted on: Thu, 21 Aug 2014 08:28:24 +0000
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