Good morning. I wanna take the time to talk to my ladies. Im listening to what has to be one of my Favorite Kelly Rowland songs; #1 The lyrics start by saying; I promise that I wont play second fiddle and no I wont be caught in the middle... She also goes on to say; Im not going to deal with a little bit of that, hell no not me, now thats a fact... Ladies STOP being the side chick... If you yourself arent ready for a commitment, leave the relationship thing completely alone. You are depleting your value when you let a man think its ok to give you anything less than 100%. Its not cool to get in where you fit in. If you are not his number one and he sees youre ok with that, I promise you he is NOT considering you as wife material, EVER. If he has a wife, he is NOT going to leave her for you. Even if he is unhappy. If he did decide to one day divorce her, you are NOT next in line. Why would you be? You have told him and showed him, you are ok with cheating, you are not to be valued as first priority... If he is allowed to put you second to another woman, he is going to be willing to put you second to EVERYTHING!!! You will always ONLY be worth What ever time he has left over when he thinks you may stray, hell give you a little extra for the moment, make you feel a little special, (which lets remember doesnt require much) just long enough to keep you from slipping off his hook A person will only do what you Allow them to people. When they see youre willing to bend rules they know youre willing to break them. And while they will enjoy breaking and bending rules with you, trust me; if they wouldnt want their daughter to be treated like a side chick, he cant comfortably marry a side chick. We may do things we wouldnt want our children to do, but we wont want our child to lack respect for themselves because we set the tone that that is ok. Yes there are exceptions to every rule, but you show me a side chick that became a wife and Ill show you a guaranteed insecure woman. She knows the way she got him, is possibly the way shell lose him...
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 14:00:42 +0000
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