Good morning! Is time to get out of bed again and make sure that we make today a great day! May be a day where you can learn to open up to the person that you like and let her/him know that you do. For sometime, you have had an enormously huge crush on a girl/guy and you have refused to tell her/him how you felt so you could protect yourself from possible rejection. You did not want to feel broken and hopeless if she/he was to shut you down and crush your dreams of being with her/him. Rejection is frightfully scary so you were always afraid if you told her/him how you felt and she/he rejected you that it would mean you would have to move on. She/he was all you wanted and you couldn’t even imagine liking someone else. Does it sound crazy yet? Shortly, that person maybe moving on to bigger and better places without you. Who knows what would have happened if you would have just told her/him how you felt from the beginning? If you like someone but are too afraid to admit it, please man up and tell this person. We have all seen the movies where two lovers find each other years later, saying, why didn’t you tell me you loved me back then? Now I have 12 kids and am unhappily married! Do not let that be you. Let your movie be the love story you want. Rejection can be painful, but the feeling of not even trying to reach out to the person you love is even worse. So, what happens if you do get rejected? Soak in the pain for a second and pick yourself back up, find the confidence in yourself to be happy without that person. Who knows, maybe, just maybe, the feeling will be mutual. Just as the good old saying goes, you never know until you try. Every day you spend contemplating if you should open up or not is a day wasted. Every breath we take is a breath closer to death. Why waste those breaths on anything but expressing how we feel? If you do not tell this person how you feel, someone else might beat you to it. Being rejected sucks, but not having even the chance of rejection because someone else stepped in is even worse. Do not live with the regret of not telling this person how you feel, especially every time you see her/him hand in hand with the person that, perhaps, could have been you. Also, if you dont tell her/him you will be wasting your time. Days, weeks, months and years can pass while liking that same person. If you do not tell her/him, what is the point of spending so much time dedicated to your feelings about this person? Wasting your time on a person who does not know how you feel will only hurt you in the end. Remember, life is too short to let opportunities pass. If you tell someone how you feel and it does not work out, it will only feel like the end of the world until the next chapter of your life begins. If you are not going to be with the person you like, let it be because he or she did not feel the same way, not because you were too afraid to open up. youtu.be/ke5C4-YE9Kk
Posted on: Fri, 12 Dec 2014 07:44:53 +0000
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