Group Input: I am divorced from narc/sociopath. We never separated though and are still living together in marital home with our 10 y/o son. Divorce was due in part to my having an affair after years of verbal and emotional abuse by him. We divorced last September. We have joint legal/physical custody. He got the house. I did the divorce myself without an attorney for 2 reasons. I couldnt afford an attorney and he wanted to be SURE we had joint legal/physical custody. I want to move out but every time I try, he tells me he will commit suicide and that our son will know it is my fault. Also, our son is an accomplished motocross racer and HE LOVES IT. Ex says that if I leave, he will sell our sons motorcycle and that he won’t be able to race anymore, and that our son will know its my fault. How do I get OUT of this situation??!! He is using every possible angle to manipulate me into staying there. He has money and access to the best counsel if needed. He was arrested for DV against me about a year and a half ago. He hired the best criminal defense attorney and it was actually DROPPED from felony DV to misdemeanor disorderly person. He has a long history of violence (several Assault & battery). He is not afraid of the law what-so-ever and would stop at NOTHING to make sure he gets his way. I am DIVORCED and STILL under the same roof with this man. He scares me to death and yet I am terrified to leave for fear that he will somehow get custody of our son and/or make my son hate me. Another note: he has a diagnosis of mood disorder/bi-polar disorder, along with generalized anxiety disorder... I have been with him since 1998 but he didnt really show his true self until after our son was born. I am totally lost as to how to get AWAY from him without losing my son. M
Posted on: Thu, 22 May 2014 17:52:27 +0000
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