Group Input Needed: Plz post anon. I was with the ex N for 11 years. 2.5 years ago I left him and moved with our two children. He was very controlling and mentally abusive as well as physically abusive on and off throughout the entire relationship. I never called police and CAS was never involved. When I left I had to seek shelter at a house for abused women and they helped me get on my feet. A month after leaving him I filed for Sole custody of our two children. Looking back on things now I should have not allowed him visits with the kids unsupervised but a week after leaving I requested we attend mediation to figure out a schedule for him to have access. And we did. (Our daughter was not yet in school) long story short 2.5 year later and we are just heading into court in June. The access arrangement no longer works for me as my work days have changed and I am in a wonderful relationship with a man who is amazing. My ex N is overly involved in the lives of our children. He demands to be. He does not work or drive or help support his children at all. He sees them often (too often) and I have been told by my lawyer I should not cut his time back at this point because the judge will not look nicely upon this. My ex N talks bad about me , accuses me of being neglectful and abussive towards our kids. I have now involved CAS because of his emotional abuse towards our kids. He talk badly about me and everyone in our lives. He tells children horrible things about me and is always questioning them and recording me and them. (Building his court case) I have some solid proof of his erratic behavior (emails an voice mails) he is diagnosed with PTSD and lives of disability because of it. I guess my question is how do I deal with him and his constant daily abuse and your torment towards me and his constant emotionally abusive talk towards my children? Im at my end and its only escalating as we get closer to court. I feel like I have allowed too much access but I am afraid of the judge looking at me like I am being unfair to him?! He is hurting our kids and making my life hell!!! Im scared a judge wont see through his bull. He presents himself as smart and calm and he is not by a long shot! What do I do ? How do I deal with this until court in 3 weeks? Any advice would be great. TIA
Posted on: Fri, 16 May 2014 21:51:45 +0000
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