HE HAS ISSUES Hello, Pls hide my and keep me posted so i can follow up with the comments. am a young lady of 23 while my man is 38, we re planning to get married by Dec the problem I have is that I dnt see my man as being friendly Ive tried changing him buh hes nt complying he gives me short answers whenever I ask him question, hes not social, hes not romantic and am this shy type too, he lives in Benin while am in Lagos anytime I go to his place to spend weeks i use to be in a hurry to come back home cos hes boring and hes nt fun to be wit, he doesnt go out not plan to take me out and all these is making me get scared and the love has reduced of getting married to him cos i dnt wanna be in a boring marriage, am nt fond of him at all Infact i dnt miss him Pls help me out cos i dnt know wat to do i dnt want my family and his family to see me as a bad person and this guy has really tried for me, he paid my school fees and gives me money. When i told my friend about this she was like maybe i ve someone else that i love and of which i do not have anybody on my mind i jst dnt wanna make mistake in marriage and one more thing is that am nt sure if he loves me or he just wanna marry me for marriage sake because hes getting older. And another thing is that i dnt have feelings for him buh a friend said feelings will grow with time buh still its not growing... Right now am depressed, the enthusiasm is not there am not even feeling happy that am getting married, am shy to tell pple am getting married and giving pple the i.v cos i dnt knw he marriage will look like wen i cannot reciprocate my love. Thinking of quitting but wat will people think? Wont they think am cursed or possessed? Wat will my family think of me? Wat will my church say? Am really confused i dnt knw wat to do Pls advice me. Thanks in advance and please notify me wen posted so i can follow up.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Nov 2014 21:19:43 +0000
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